I LOVE HER SO MUCH( i didn't cheat)
2006-09-05 16:34:06 · 11 answers · asked by JOE Z 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't be desperate. Move on with your life and quit slobbering and whinning over this ended relationship.
2006-09-05 16:35:24 · answer #1 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am sorry to hear that you are separated. Not knowing what caused it is hard to say or give any real advice...
Did she cheat? Were your just simply ignoring your responsibilities towards her as your wife?
Taking it that it was a loss of communication between the two of you, the easiest way would be to lay it out on the line and tell her how you feel... Show her how you feel... And hope that she responds... Real love always finds its way back together so have faith in her and in your relationship as husband and wife.
Speaking for my own feelings I do not look for my hubby to be with me 24/7... I only want the time we are together to be quality time... And this doesn't mean him kissing my bum either... It just simply means really connecting on an emotional and physical level.
Give her a chance to open up to you after you have shown her what she means to you all over again..... Best wishes to you both. ~
2006-09-05 23:44:14 · answer #2 · answered by Not Spoiled Just Loved♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hard to say, depends on why she left and also if theres even a glimmer of love for u left.. I dont know what kind of woman she is so i will just generalize her.. most women are very emotional creatures, they want the prince charming, happily ever after fairy tale, they want their men to be Romantic Casanova's like they see in the movies and on Soap Operas.. they want a man that pays them alot of attention and actually listens when they talk.. Then again there are women that even though they dont want their man, they dont want their man to want anyone else or for anyone else to want their man, its a territorial thing..
So i have 2 things to suggest.. First think up something wonderfully romantic to do for her to just knock her off her feet something she'd only see in movies or read in books.. something that no one has ever done for her before, and something that would just make her heart melt.. if after u do this.. u still get a "no" , then say ok see ya, then start actting like u dont give a damn about her, start being extremely happy even if ur feel like crying inside.. if she calls, be polite but always act like ur busy and gotta go.. Plant the seed that their could be someone else in ur life even if theres not.. dont say u are, but just give off the impression.. Most people hate to be ignored, and they hate know that the person they left isnt pineing away for them.. So give both a shot at this point what do u have to lose???????? If she still doesnt come back then u have ur answer of where she stands and unfortunately u'll just have to live with her decision...
2006-09-05 23:43:10 · answer #3 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if the two of you seperated and you didn't cheat, you two seperated for a reason.
Sometimes it's not always good to re-light an old flame because it burns out quickly. I can only hope that instead of working so hard to change yourself for your ex, that you will work hard on doing things for yourself so you can be a better person and move on, without her.
If she doesn't want you then you should let it be and move on as she is. You can't make someone want you again; it's in gods hands.
2006-09-05 23:37:08 · answer #4 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG. Women are territorial just like men. First find a new interest, not necessarily hotter (although hotter than her would be better) but more interesting ie. better job, interests, friends, hobbies, and hang with her. If the ex calls don't answer. She stops by, you're leaving. If she doesn't do any of the above, hang with the distraction girl you may like her. Take a class, move fore ward. She will come running and you will want to walk away, wait and see.
2006-09-05 23:55:19 · answer #5 · answered by JULIE J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There has to be a reason for you two to be separted. . All you can do is talk to her and tell her how you fill. that you want to try and make thgings work again. Peolple fall out of love , have you been separeted long. You have to try even harder. Let her know you want another chance or you for give her if it was her fault. . If she is willing I wish you to luck, if not then best to move on. Good luck Pem
2006-09-05 23:46:03 · answer #6 · answered by Patricia M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask her out on a couple of dates and see how they go. women want to feel wanted. if you feel nothing magical is happening when/if you go out with her forget it. but do make your presence known and move on. you may catch her eye again, just don't appear desperate or too needy.
2006-09-05 23:38:18 · answer #7 · answered by Skypride 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you didn't cheat,what happen need more details
2006-09-05 23:36:15 · answer #8 · answered by jolie minouche 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you freakin' nutz!
Do you like being kicked in the balls!
Get on with your life!
2006-09-05 23:37:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hit the lottery!
2006-09-05 23:35:56 · answer #10 · answered by fjrnj 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋