have you ever been in love, and he says he needs time, and calls off the wedding, and says he wants to be single? but still wants you to be around? What would you think? He says that he needs to know what is out there for him, and that everyman should have strange sex before they get married, how would you feel, expecially when you help out with his two kids, and does everything that a mom does, and he acts like he don't care........
2006-09-05 16:27:22 · 17 answers · asked by mrs.f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
let him go, and don't look back...... you deserve better,there's alot of good men, go and find one, they might be in a different town or state, but there are some out there..........
2006-09-06 15:11:35 · answer #1 · answered by miss.d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, WAIT. Let me get this straight. He says that, every guy needs some strange sex before he weds,...but he ALREADY HAS 2 KIDS??!!? Honey, listen and listen good. This is a case of free milk and a cow,OK? He wants you to be there, for the sex, for the help with the kids. He does NOT, and probably never did, want to marry. This IS NOT YOU. Move on to something worthy, I will pray for you.
2006-09-05 16:37:39 · answer #2 · answered by longhair140 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you should let him go. Boy he's a winner! If he's as ungrateful as you say then let him go but I wouldn't open the door after he has his fun and finds out that there are not a lot of girls who will take on the responsibility of another man's children, that also come with (their mama's ) ex's drama. Call yourself lucky and let him leave. I know it may be hard at first but trust me someone who will show you more respect will never leave you hanging because of "strange sex". The strange sex should be with you! Why can't you find it together? good luck, stay strong!
2006-09-05 16:37:02 · answer #3 · answered by Nikie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's tagging you along. You need to determine if you want to spend the rest of your life with someone who "needs time to have strange sex". That's not normal. As you said, you help with his children and do what a mother does. Sit him down and have a LONG talk. Maybe he's just scared about committing his life to you...but if he's just taking you for a ride then you need to leave him.
Good Luck
2006-09-05 16:31:49 · answer #4 · answered by makeitclap23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may sound terrible but he is using you. He thinks that he can do whatever he wants and you will still be there because you love him and his kids. As hard as it may be, you might want to step back from this relationship. It wont be easy but you will just hurt worse if you stick around. No doubt, you are a good woman and you deserve a man that is sure of himself.
2006-09-05 16:32:36 · answer #5 · answered by Charlee's Mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to have his cake and eat it to. If he still needs to “play the field” and experience new things then he is nowhere near ready for marriage nor is he ready for a committed relationship. Let him go and find a “grown up” man worthy of you and your feelings. Also, if you start “playing the field” as well, you will probably find this man was not where near “the man you thought he was”.
2006-09-05 16:46:40 · answer #6 · answered by 75160 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl friend i feel like your telling my story,i just recently broke up with this guy ,we've been dating for slmost 4 yrs and he still doesn;t want to commit ,said he doesn't know how to be fatefull and also has 2 kids , i have broken up with him as so should you i was holding on to something that was never worth holding on it , i loved him a lot and am sure u love him to but i think we need to look at our selves and be strong and move on cos they dont deserve us , i miss him a lot and its not easy but trust me u and i deserve better ,i know you;r a beatiful a and loving person but you have wasted time with him , dont waste anymore , Move on Hon and God will see you thru every thing
2006-09-05 16:43:36 · answer #7 · answered by medusar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a man says something like that it's a way to break up without actually saying so. You need to face that it's over, sorry.
2006-09-05 16:29:54 · answer #8 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Drop him like a hot potatoe and let him find out what's out there for him, let him get someone stupid enough to take care of his children and keep dangling by a string by him. YOU SOUND LIKE YOU DESEVE TO BE TREATED LIKE THIS< GET OVER IT> IT'S NOT LOVE!
2006-09-05 16:32:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him move on girl if wonts to be single let him he will never wont to be married he just wonts u around to get it from u tell he finds a new girl.
2006-09-05 16:30:57 · answer #10 · answered by OceanBlue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would I feel? First of all, dumbfounded and then completely shocked! Well, if that is what he wants, wish him good luck and find someone who is worthy of your company.
2006-09-05 16:29:51 · answer #11 · answered by Miss J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋