2006-09-05 16:23:28 · 19 answers · asked by samdesign78 6 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
It depends on your morals, as well as how commited you are. My fiancee and I have been together our entire life, since the day we were born, and always knew that we were going to be married as soon as we could. When we had sex for the first time at 16, we exchanged gold bands and said wedding vows to each other beforehand, and considered that the day we were married. Over 2 years later, we are about to be legally married - but in our hearts, we've been married for years.
It all depends on who you are as a person and as a couple. Religiously speaking, your wedding night is ideal. But for us, that was our wedding night.
2006-09-05 16:50:17 · answer #1 · answered by Cherished_Bride 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ABSOLUTELY NEVER BEFORE MARRIAGE .....!!!!!!! what you do after your Marriage is up to you but if you do it before marriage you or your spouse are more likely to be unfaithfull to each other and have no basis for trust or commitment and are highly likely to end up in divorce court on the other hand couple who wait have longer happier marriages built on love respect mutual trust and fidelity and rarely end up in a divorce court and live longer the best expert on it all in the Bible who is the originator of the human family under the Mosaic law if you had sex before marriage you were taken outside the city gates and stoned to death because you had sinned today you get AIDS and STDSand a host of other problems hope that helps you make the right choice wait for that beautiful day Gorbalizer
2006-09-06 00:26:27 · answer #2 · answered by gorbalizer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Preferably After marriage.
2006-09-06 05:28:46 · answer #3 · answered by sugar_guy84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is an important part of a marriage. And so its important to know what its like with said person before getting married. But these same people must always understand that sex can and often does result in pregnancy and or some pretty awful diseases. You guys need to protect yourselves. Wear a condom!!!
2006-09-05 23:30:21 · answer #4 · answered by Dainlynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without a doubt before. Sex is an important part of being married. If a couple gets married and then finds out they are not compatible in the bed, they are not going to have a very happy life together. I don't care what the religious right says, sex is an important part of a relationship.
2006-09-05 23:28:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's up to the person. I'm someone who believes in partial abstinence, only because I like the thought of my physical virginity being taken on my wedding night.
Others aren't fond of the idea, and are ready before marriage.
2006-09-05 23:45:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After marriage because you wouldn't have regrets of doing it with others before. Also you feel much better if you waited until marriage.
2006-09-05 23:31:24 · answer #7 · answered by Kenneth S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your question is sort of tricky. But it really depends on individual. Personally I preferred after marriage
2006-09-06 05:31:15 · answer #8 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After Marriage of course.. but that happens so rare these days.
2006-09-05 23:25:12 · answer #9 · answered by awesome_eo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can understand why people wait until after marriage to make it "special" but I feel like sex has already lost its specialness and if you dont have sex they you're just gonna go crazy.
2006-09-05 23:49:10 · answer #10 · answered by hazeleyedbambi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋