i'm getting married in a few months and i'm also a virgin so i want to learn some tecniques and/or advice to make our wedding night fantastic.
2006-09-05 16:21:33 · 20 answers · asked by kandykane95828 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
bring a bottle of astroglide. it should keep it from hurting so much. Oh, and don't consumate the marriage in your wedding dress, unless you plan on dying the whole thing red.
2006-09-05 16:25:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was a virgin when I got married, in April this year. I am only 21 too. My husband wasn't a virgin but he was waiting for me till marriage.
Honestly, the first night, i was tired. The wedding makes you so tired well it did me, and friends of ours who are married also.
We waited till the second night, when we were actually on our honeymoon. We did nothing special....but we went slow, and did only what I was comfortable with.
Its never going to be great the first time, and i was worried that i would never enjoy sex. But...been married for 4mths now and I love it.
The first few times you are just gunna get use to it all, its a big step lol and not everyone has pain and or bleeds. I had a small amount of pain and i didn't bleed.
But as others have said, if its you...and the guy...and he knows he CAN hvae you now...thats all he needs to get going. The fact that he CAN have you...and its special cos your his wife...will be all you need :) oh if he likes longerie get some of that :p i did.
Good luck with the wedding ;) it will go fast and you will have lots of smiling to do. And don't rush things, you got your whole life to have sex with your husband hehe and believe me, it only gets better.
Godbless :)
2006-09-05 23:37:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you were a driving instructor, would you take your student out for their first lesson on the highway in rush hour traffic? Don't worry about "blood boiling techniques" just yet. Give that some time. Virgins, whether married or not are not suppose to know how to do perfectly what they have never done. It's o.k. to not know how to make his blood boil at this point. you have many years to discover all of the things that really get to him. just enjoy him, that's the most important thing. This really is one of those "on the job training" things in life.
2006-09-05 23:37:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was a virgin too. So was my hubby. It was one of the most incredible, nerve racking, scary, exciting nights of my life. It's definately awkward, but wonderful.
Just let nature take it's course, don't rush anything. I've been married 7 1/2 years now and it just gets better and better. Don't worry you have plenty of time to experiment and try/learn new things.
Communicate with each other. Don't be afraid to express your feelings and wants. Also a little lube is good to have on hand.
Good luck!!!
2006-09-06 00:40:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a delicate one. Most films made to educate people about sex are kind of clinical and brutal and might not help you. One of the nicest movie sex scenes I know of is in "Lady Beware," one of Diane Lane's earlier films. And actually it's only half a sex scene, sandwiched into a very realistic and frightening thriller. But it's truly beautiful...the young woman she portrays comes across as both innocent and adventurous. Might be worthwhile to watch it.
2006-09-05 23:30:09 · answer #5 · answered by silver.graph 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best advice: Keep it simple and basic
You don't want to try something special when you don't know what to expect. Knowing that you waited for him could be the biggest turn on for him
Techniques are what makes him want you more in the future
2006-09-05 23:26:31 · answer #6 · answered by artmastercf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me; You will know instinctively what to do. His blood will be so hot that he want have any trouble performing. you may not want him to get any hotter than he's going to be!
But just in case; relax ( yeah, ha, ha!) and go with the flow. Do what your fantasies have told you to do. Hold him off as long as you can; make him take his time.
2006-09-05 23:27:10 · answer #7 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry! I can hear his blood boiling from here!!!!! He is getting a VIRGIN!!!! Do you know how hard that is to find now a days????? Best Wishes
2006-09-05 23:36:58 · answer #8 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strip for him to some Sean Paul "Give It Up to me" and also put a compilation of songs together to make it special.
2006-09-05 23:24:40 · answer #9 · answered by Lady G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get a coulple of porno to get an idea not hard core. And then let yourself get freaky because you are in love. Try to do what he wants. And know at least what you want to try.
GOOD LUCK
2006-09-05 23:28:29 · answer #10 · answered by passthevasia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋