I Don't Fit in at school i can't make no friends that treat me different cause i don't act all mean and disrecspectful like some of them and i don't smoke drink. and the girls don't pay me any attention either
2006-09-05 16:17:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It gives you freedom to study harder. Get better grades, get better college and earn sh!t loads of money and power. Then you call the shots and when they are all old and balding and fat in a dead end marriage, you can easily show off your wealth and young wife who does nothing short but adore you.
Patient grasshopper...the game has not started yet. Learn rules.
2006-09-05 16:23:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be glad, why would you want to fit in with people who are mean and disrespectful. Have pride in yourself, honey, it is an excellent and rare quality that you do not drink and smoke, your life is going to be a million times better for it. Just stay strong in your mind and confident and Im sure you will find people are drawn to you. Join a club, any activity, that helps too. And it is true what the others are saying, study now, get all the power and money and these people will be begging for your attention for a job 10 years down the line! Good Luck!
2006-09-05 16:29:11 · answer #2 · answered by citygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you! You don't want friends that would ask you to smoke and be disrespectful. I know its lonely right now, but if you stick to your morals, eventually you will find some friends that you are truly comfortable with. In the mean time, be confident in who you are. Don't feel apologetic because you aren't rude enough to be popular. Just be the kind, moral person that you are and eventually people will be drawn to your confidence. You might try to find some sort of extracurricular activity that you enjoy, if not a sport, then some sort of youth group of hobby where you might meet people of a similar moral standing.
I went through most of my early teen years fairly unpopular. I didn't have many friends, and the friends I did have were mean and insincere. I ended up joining Tae Kwon Do and gained confidence in myself and who I was. I didn't have to tell people about it, but I felt so confident and good about myself for learning something so difficult, that my personality became much more outgoing. People were drawn to that confidence, and soon I found a group of friends that liked me for who I really was.
Hang in there, once you find true friends it will be sooo worth it.
2006-09-05 16:29:47 · answer #3 · answered by MegySu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I was in high school, which wasn't that long ago-really, the kids were mean to anyone who wasn't like them, but the sad part is that you don't want to be 'those' kids. It's good that you don't smoke or drink. I didn't fit in at all in high school, and I liked it that way. You seem like a mature person, stay that way, don't change for anyone. When you get out of high school you'll love yourself more because you didn't try to be like everyone else.
Just know that it's alright not to fit in, be a good student, get good grades, go to college and you'll be bossing them around soon enough!!
Oh and about the girls, most are sluts in high school, try to avoid them so you won't accidentally get one pregnant!!
2006-09-05 16:25:20 · answer #4 · answered by Heather 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
who cares if you dont fit in school, you dont need disrespectful friends who act mean, congratulations you are one of the unique beings in this world , dont let them get to you besides school is not the only surrounding where you'll be able to have friends, friendship comes naturally you need not try looking for it if its not willing to be with you right now,
and it does not mean that if you dont smoke or drink youre bad
or that you are not cool(people are so stupid when they think those vices can help them), its great that you dont smoke and drink, you need not waste your money on those worthless vices, i have friends who smoke and drink(sine of them even do marijuana and other stuff) its their choice i respect that but i dont need to imitate them because i have a strong personality and you have too you dont get influenced easily which is great and never mind the girls if they dont pay attention to you, there is somebody for everybody those girls are way out of your league which means you dont deserve suck up girls who dont know what to do but imitate others u are original be glad with that fact, you'll meet the right girl for you at the right time, dont mind those girls who needs them anyway they will just take your money, focus and attention
and hey by they way im a girl take it from me youre doing well you dont always have to fit in
2006-09-05 16:25:50 · answer #5 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Have you asked your parents about a christian school? or have you tried to talk to a counsiler at school? your parent or s ? Personally, I would not worry much with it b/c you will have the last laugh....trust me. Stay a good kid and the rewards will be endless as an adult! you will make more money, be financial stable and smarter when you pass by one of your former classmates digging in someones trash or homelrss. ( not that all homeless people were bad kids) just trust me, you'll have the last laugh!
2006-09-05 16:25:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I don't know where you go to school but I would not want to go there...You sound like one of those people that is just in a rough patch you will make friends not everyone is an ***...and if I knew you I would pay attention to you you sound like a great person!!I don't like guys that drink or smoke or are disrespectful so good-going!
2006-09-05 16:26:41 · answer #7 · answered by christina s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give time it will work out for you don't let anyone tell you that you have to be bad stay the way you are nice and cool good luck to you
2006-09-05 16:31:25 · answer #8 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋