Should i take him with me, if i live town?

Question

I have seen this person for about 3 years back and fort i dreamed to marry him one day, next i found out that he had a ment health problem but for a short period of time he is very lonely person he has no broth/ sisters he never met his father cause he left before he was born . His mother hates me beacause he may suffer mayor consecuences for a 2nd divorce because he was before, and suffer a lot. He give all what he had in every possible way, he sees to me, that he loves me very much but cant marry cause he doesnt trust. me, because my heritage his wife . I travel for 4 months to keep my thoughts away , and i did for the first month but then I couldnt. After I talked w/him him we starting e-mai each other , we missed being together and holdind hands. I I care for him very much one more try will be in vain unless he marrys me , he doesnt know this , but im not going to move with him because thats when problems An advice. , he cant face truth and me neigther,

Answer 1

You've already answered your own question. You have clearly listed all of the various problems that would pose a serious threat to your own emotional, financial, and possible physical well-being: mental illness, family estrangement, trust issues, denial/avoidance, etc.

DO NOT take him with you if you leave town. This does not mean you have to stop caring about his well-being and making other arrangements, but do not be a classic codependent by taking him with you.