I just started a new school, & my first day, was shown around school by this GORGEOUS man. At lunch, when I brought it up to a few girls, they all told me to stay away, that it was hopeless - he was already taken. I thought so what, its just a little thing, but then they explained their history.They've been together ALL of their life, since born, & are practically married.They're nice to everyone, but keep to their small group of friends.Anyways, she said they were everyones Romeo and Juliet -& then they walked onto the Quad holding hands, and everyone (like 500 people) turned and looked, and then they kissed - & I swear, they glowed.The thing is, she isn't that attractive - a little fat. I can't see what he sees in her! I'm pretty hott, and I think I'm allot better for him.Besides,High School couples don't last - so why can't he give me a try? I want to know how to catch his eye - and succed! Even if it's just a one-night hookup,I want him-Badly. I'd do anything it takes...hes amazing
2006-09-05 16:16:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Everyone loves them - I think it's pathetic. They were prom queen and king last year, and both years before, homecoming queen and king. Yea, sure, they're soulmates, blah blah blah. But why can't he can't give any other girl the time of day? Sure, he's friends with a tons of girl, but he doesn't flirt with anyone but her. He even got on bended knee and kissed her hand in the hallway today - and it ticks me off. Why is everyone so sure they are made for one another? Don't they need to date other people? For cryin out loud - since the day they were born? (their parents are friends, thats why) What's up with that? Give little 'ol me a chance. He's italian,almost 6 feet tall,muscular-basically tall dark and handsome. I want him! Please, just give me a few ideas on how to get his eyes off her and onto me! I'll do anything it takes!
2006-09-05 16:16:34 · update #1
Leave the couple alone. It will only destroy you if you try to go after this guy. Really.
2006-09-05 16:28:16 · answer #1 · answered by Ah Boi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girlie, you don't stand a chance because they are happy and no doubt have seen folks like you before. The real question is why do you feel the need to focus on them and "getting" his attention? The answer to that I believe is that you have low esteem and are looking to be validated. Rather than waste your time and get everyone mad at you, you need to focus on yourself and building who you are and feeling good about you. Why not join a club? Try out for a play? Take up a sport or instrument? Work on you! And your Romeo will find you and then you will have what she has with a guy that is ment for you!
2006-09-05 16:51:07 · answer #2 · answered by hala_leon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? This couple you are talking about are happy together and you should be mature about it and let it be. If you try to pursue him and make them breakup, that doesn't mean he will want you. He is obviously not interested in you (at this current time) and it would be morally wrong to try and step in and ruin a good thing the two of them have. Just because this girl is "chubby" doesn't mean that she has nothing else to offer. Love (if that is what they have) doesn't focus on just the outside. Just imagine that if you were in her situation and you had a girl out there asking for advice to take YOUR man.
2006-09-05 16:25:21 · answer #3 · answered by KG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could never keep a guy like that.
Why would you create chaos in YOUR life where there is none?
If your as " hot " as you say you will have many guys.
You are just jealous of the other girl because she found something that you may never find.
Even though that is what you long for, And you know that is what you need.
Be a GOOD person and you will find the man of your dreams.
2006-09-05 16:52:03 · answer #4 · answered by chubbiguy40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound just alittle too desperate there...calm down.
I am sure if you say you are so attractive that you should have someone already for yourself? not the case? and if not why?
focus on something productive and stop trying to take what obviously belongs to someone else.
they love each other.....what's the harm...besides you trying to move in?
fine....you want his attention?
in the auditorium in front of the entire school express your un dying love and flop out the hoots and dance with a low cut mini skirt with no panties and scream out your devotion....there happy? jeez get a life sweet checks
2006-09-05 16:29:08 · answer #5 · answered by transvainia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
face it there is nothing you can do about it...why are you so h*ll bent on breaking up there relationship...they obviously have to be in love if they stayed together all these years...why would you wanna be a b*tch and take that away from him...he would hate you forever for it...and what does leave you...NOTHING!!!! grow up and move on!!!!
oh and by the way...it doesnt matter if she isnt that great looking he obviously loves her personality and the person that she is....if you are so hott you should have no problem getting someone else!!
2006-09-05 16:20:39 · answer #6 · answered by *His_Playgirl* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
GO GET COUNSELING! If this is what you are obsessing on...it's time to see a therapist. You have self worth issues. Go deal with them. Then someday you'll be ready for the gorgeous guy of your dreams, rather than a hormonal insane nightmare!
2006-09-05 18:12:12 · answer #7 · answered by carolinagal75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a rest...Leave him alone. Do you want to wind up with a bad reputation in high school as the girl who broke up the "ideal" couple? You will be hated. Don't do it.
2006-09-05 16:23:22 · answer #8 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is a true gentleman and wouldn't give someone as shallow as you the time of day. He doesn't see the physical imperfections of his girlfriend, he sees the person he loves.
2006-09-05 16:19:36 · answer #9 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if he would cheat on what seems to be a perfect thing then why would you want him when he would probably do the same thing to you. if it was meant for you to be with him then he will notice you. but if not don't break someone else up just for momentary pleasure
2006-09-05 16:33:39 · answer #10 · answered by tiffiny m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋