Shared a condominium with a female housemate. Came back a day earlier from overseas business trip. Went to the main bathroom and accidentally caught my housemate showering with one of her girlfriends... very embarassing situation. Both of us feel awkward already... Can't get it out of my head. Should I talk to her bout this?
2006-09-05 16:12:33 · 15 answers · asked by Michael S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
shes proberbly really embarrassed and doesnt want to talk about it. id give it some time, and then if its still bothering you and she hasnt said anything then maybe bring it up. but try not to make a big deal out of it, you might scare her and then you'll need to look for a new roomie..thats a pain! good luck!!
2006-09-05 16:14:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk it over just enough to get the tension gone. Would you feel as awkward if it had been a man?
Probably not. Try and just view it as the same situation, she was showering with her date/friend/whatever and let it go. Good roomates are hard to find.
2006-09-05 23:16:05 · answer #2 · answered by Chloe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would like to think that everyone should be able to talk about things. The truth is are you embarrassed or turned on. I don't think that really it's your fault that you walked in on them if they didn't want someone to see they have that thing on the doorknob called a lock.
2006-09-05 23:19:01 · answer #3 · answered by RCP 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really feel awkward? Or you just want to start a conversation hoping for an invitation?
2006-09-05 23:14:48 · answer #4 · answered by Phil S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should if you can talk but not judge. I would make an effort to state what you want to say and clear the air.
2006-09-05 23:15:54 · answer #5 · answered by J Somethingorother 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES. It is better to get these things out in the open.
If you are uncomfortable about this siituation, it is better to get it all cleared up now.
2006-09-05 23:15:24 · answer #6 · answered by zelduh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone--don't go there. She probably wants to forget about the whole episode as well.
2006-09-05 23:14:54 · answer #7 · answered by Miss J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should offer to take a non sexual shower with her and offer to wash her body. then you two will not be uncomfortable with each other, because you get to explore lesbian tendencies, and she gets some more shower action.
2006-09-05 23:16:42 · answer #8 · answered by sue man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's disrupting your daily life then talk to her. If not, good luck trying to forget a most unpleasant experience.
2006-09-05 23:15:47 · answer #9 · answered by I love my husband 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that you should just leave it alone. It's obvious that both of you are embarassed already, don't make it worse.
2006-09-05 23:14:31 · answer #10 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋