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2006-09-05 16:04:59 · 11 answers · asked by vijayarajur 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
The G-Spot
We have both ends of the spectrum here - couples who devote the entire weekend trying to find the elusive G Spot; then we have females who are all upset because they think they pee'd the bed during sex, and are so embarrassed they are reluctant to get into sex again for fear they flood the bedroom!
Anatomically, the G Spot cannot be found as such; it is believed to be a small spongy pad that wraps around the urethra. If that pad is stimulated through the vaginal wall during sexual arousal, it can be very exciting.
The G Spot is a small area, (about 1 inch diameter) inside the vagina, up about an inch and half to two inches. Appropriate stimulation will cause the female to take a deep breath and push down real hard. Most women describe the sensation as feeling they want to urinate - they have a powerful urge to "bear down", same sensation of pushing when delivering a baby. They take a deep breath, hold it and push right down to their bottom.
During G Spot orgasm, a large amount of fluid may suddenly gush out through the urethra. It is difficult to estimate how much fluid is expelled. I have heard amounts ranging from one cup to 2 quarts. The G Spot fluid is colourless, (urine is yellow), it smells sweet like clover, (urine smells like urine), it does not stain the mattress, (urine certainly does).
Every woman who has experienced G Spot orgasm has a different way of getting there. But there is a common thread through their stories. Usually it happens when:
- she is in a high trust relationship where she does not worry what she looks like, sounds like or smells like; she is confident.
- she is very, very sexually aroused. She has possibly had one or more orgasms just prior to reaching G Spot orgasm.
- she reaches a certain point and she just has to push down.
- she can feel the fluid spurting out and it feels wonderful.
- after that orgasm, women will tell you they feel completely depleted, they can hardly walk to the bathroom.
- it the best sex possible.
Some women say they have easy G Spot orgasms with one partner and unable to get there with another. Some women are able to stimulate themselves to G Spot orgasms, others just can't.
Some women get tired of having a perpetually wet bed, so they take a green garbage bag, cut up one side and across the top. Open it up, then take a flannelette sheet or big beach towel, pin it to all four corners of the garbage bag. Then roll this up lengthwise and put it just under her side of the bed, within easy reach. Then if she decided that "tonight's the night, ain't nobody gonna stop me now", she reaches under the bed, rolls the sheet/bag under her hips. Her partner knows what that means, and away they go.
Take the pressure off yourself. Some females ejaculate on a regular basis, some can make it happen, for others it is an amazing accident, and some women just do not ejaculate. But sex is pleasurable and enjoyable and satisfying if you do or don't hit that elusive G spot.
If you want more information, check out THE GOOD VIBRATIONS GUIDE TO THE G SPOT by CATHY WINKS, published by DOWN THERE PRESS. We also recommend UNDERSTANDING THE G SPOT by DONALD HICKS.
If you are curious about the chemical make up of G Spot fluid as compared to urine, do get the pocketbook The G SPOT by LADAS, WHIPPLE AND PERRY, published by DELL POCKETBOOKS.
The A-Spot
Some males are jealous that females have a "G Spot" that, when stimulated, results in a high level of sexual excitement and a geyser of fluid called female ejaculate or orgasmic expulsion. Males have an "A SPOT".
It involves stimulating the prostate gland via the rectum. This is done by manual stimulation or gentle use of a dildo or vibrator. The operative word here is "gentle" - the prostate is very sensitive and any rough stuff can be very painful, possibly dangerous. Any way you choose to do it, here are the basics:
Put a condom over your index and middle finger; lubricate them well; touch around the rectum till it is relaxed enough to allow easy insertion of one then two fingers. About 2 inches up the rectum you will feel another sphincter, (ring of muscles). It may take a minute or so for these muscles to relax, then, when your fingers can go up about 3-4 inches, you gently stroke and you will feel his prostate. If is firmer than surrounding organs - feels about the size of a walnut and is very sensitive. Then you crook these two fingers towards his abdomen and gently stroke.
Communication is important here. He needs to tell you if it feels good or if it is uncomfortable, even painful. At the same time, you may be performing manual or oral stimulation on his penis and genitals. In all probability, this will result in a very satisfying ejaculation and orgasm.
2006-09-05 16:07:30 · answer #1 · answered by moon_fariey 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The G Spot is considered a myth by many "professionals." But in my personal experience. The G spot is a place near or in the woman's vagina. It could be her clit, asmall hook like part, some women even think the small membrane between their vagina and ***. It's whatever makes the women go "oh my god." lol
2006-09-05 16:11:05 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The G Spot (Graffenburg) is located on the interior wall of the vagina. It is a small, raised, bean shaped area that can provide intense stimulation in a woman.
2006-09-05 16:08:20 · answer #3 · answered by thrill88 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Focus on the c lit. That is where the love is... G spot is 2 inches in on top, kinda rough. But be ware that some girls are not equipped with one.
2006-09-05 16:07:59 · answer #4 · answered by kari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
g spot is a cluster of nerves inside the vaginal canal. the easiest way to find it is to have a girl lay on her stomach and you slode one or two fingers in from behind and basically feel around with a purpose start with 3 inches in and toward the stomach or dorsal side of the canal and work from there with different speeds and pressure with her directing your movements.
2006-09-05 16:08:18 · answer #5 · answered by gsschulte 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u dont know what g spot is im pretty sure u wont be able to find it
2006-09-05 16:13:08 · answer #6 · answered by nena5271 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah just watch American Pie and then do the Tongue Tornado
2006-09-05 16:08:03 · answer #7 · answered by Lady G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you need to ask you need to keep searching for it!
If you find it and play on it you will get a surprise!
Good luck!
PS; It's not on the North pole!!!
2006-09-05 16:07:19 · answer #8 · answered by georgia1402 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consult a sex education manual.
2006-09-05 16:07:05 · answer #9 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have her show you her favorite spot you'll both like it
2006-09-05 16:21:53 · answer #10 · answered by farm babe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋