I just started a new school, & my first day, was shown around school by this GORGEOUS man. At lunch, when I brought it up to a few girls, they all told me to stay away, that it was hopeless - he was already taken. I thought so what, its just a little thing, but then they explained their history.They've been together ALL of their life, since born, & are practically married.They're nice to everyone, but keep to their small group of friends.Anyways, she said they were everyones Romeo and Juliet -& then they walked onto the Quad holding hands, and everyone (like 500 people) turned and looked, and then they kissed - & I swear, they glowed.The thing is, she isn't that attractive - a little fat. I can't see what he sees in her! I'm pretty hott, and I think I'm allot better for him.Besides,High School couples don't last - so why can't he give me a try? I want to know how to catch his eye - and succed! Even if it's just a one-night hookup, I want him. How should I do it?
2006-09-05 15:52:59 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
They are engaged - I didn't realize that, but both wear gold rings on their left hand fingers, so yea. I was just told the wedding date in set for next Autumn.
Everyone loves them - I think it's pathetic. They were prom queen and king last year, and both years before, homecoming queen and king. Yea, sure, they're soulmates, blah blah blah. But why can't he can't give any other girl the time of day? Sure, he's friends with a tons of girl, but he doesn't flirt with anyone but her. He even got on bended knee and kissed her hand in the hallway today - and it ticks me off. Why is everyone so sure they are made for one another? Don't they need to date other people? For cryin out loud - since the day they were born? (their parents are friends, thats why) What's up with that? Give little 'ol me a chance. He's italian,almost 6 feet tall,muscular-basically tall dark and handsome. I want him! Please, just give me a few ideas on how to get his eyes off her and onto me! I'll do anything it takes!
2006-09-05 15:54:25 · update #1
Well, this is just my opinion okay. Why in the world would you try to get with someone that has a girlfriend? If they have been together and been friends for so long then why would you think they would split up now. Yeah some high school relationships don't last. But some do. I know alot of people that have been together since high school and are married now. I met my husband when I was 15 and we have been toether ever since (I am 21 now) It is obvious that he sees her as beautiful and obviously doesn't care about her "fat" You are speaking to someone that has always been chubby and my jusband is very good looking...he's 6 foot 2 and tan and has dark hair. There were plenty of pretty girls but he chose me. It just goes to show you that whats on the outside doesn't all count. I would stay away from him. Why try to break up a happy couple just because you are jealous? It seems like you need to go looking for someone that doesn't have a girl. I knew this girl once that would stalk my husband before we were married and I was still in school. She was so crazy...she called all the time and followed him every where in her car. Sh qould not leave him alone because she wanted him and didn't care that he didn't like her and wanted to be with me. It was just a big mess! She stalked him for lke 3 years. Until he told her off for the last time and it wasn't pretty. I wouldn't want this to happen to you. I know how it is to like a guy and they have a girlfriend. But it's not worth the trouble that could follow....trust me. Please don't try to mess up their relationship. I have been in this situation!
2006-09-05 16:07:34 · answer #1 · answered by Love not hate 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are really bad news. You are going to ruin your reputation at this school really quick! You said she's not that cute- Well wake up! Not everything is about looks. She maybe kinda cute but have a great personality- which goes a long way when you are talking about spending your life with someone. He sounds like a smart guy. Choosing someone he loves over some "Hottie , flavor of the week" Lots of high school couples last.
Find another guy and try to look deeper at people - looks aren't everything.
2006-09-05 23:03:36 · answer #2 · answered by weswe 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
OMG are you serious? Leave them alone! Do you really think you have a chance? Anything you do to try and get him from her will just make both of them ( And I'm guessing the whole school ) hate you! I don't even know you and I hate you - that is so selfish to want to brake up someones marriage! Find a single guy of your own! I am engaged and I know NOBODY could tear me away from my guy and same thing with him.
Get over him, get over yourself, get over your jealousy.
Unbelievable.
2006-09-06 01:19:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please don't. If he's engaged and happy you shouldn't try and get in the way of that no matter how strong your feelings are. Anyway, I don't think throwing yourself at him is the way to land a guy in any circumstance. In general, they don't respond to such a "whorish" attitude. Have you ever considered that you're too available for his taste. When there isn't any form of any type of challenge what do they have to chase? You just seem desperate and sad. She obviously offers something you don't posses, perhaps dignity and self worth.
You're one sick puppy ,kid. I'll be seeing you on "Trash teens gone Wild" or something to that persuasion ,I'm sure.
2006-09-05 22:59:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That would be so mean. They are getting married so it's already too late. Also the fact that they knew each other since birth says they trust and love each other enough to get married. You should find someone else because making someone else like you is just bad. Plus I don't think it'll work out since you JUST MET HIM.
2006-09-05 23:21:34 · answer #5 · answered by Kenneth S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, your the one who is pathetic. what kind of a questions is how can i get a guy to cheat on his fiance with me? You obviously don't understand their history, if you got him to notice you and he cheated on her with you and she found out you just ruined a relationship that has lasted for so long just because you wanted to get laid by a hot guy, who cares if shes a little fat he obviously sees something in her that your to stupid to see. its girls like you that bring up the divorce rate. so heres some advice back off and let them be happy, you can get laid somewhere else if your soo hot. and high school relationships do last i've been with mine for almost seven years now and were still going strong.
2006-09-05 23:01:22 · answer #6 · answered by delphina0723 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Can we say statutory rape for him if you win this little fiasco? Quit while you are ahead kiddo. Focus on being a teenager, and stop trying to be the center of attention for someone 1) older than you who is out of your dating range age wise and 2) who is already taken.
2006-09-05 22:59:47 · answer #7 · answered by Bible Trekker 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're a senior in high school, for cryin' out loud. Don't you think it's time you began to grow up a little? Makes me wonder how many others think like you.
2006-09-05 23:01:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
suppose he dumps her and goes with you.. you have started a pattern of him being disloyal to the woman he is with - therefore it will be only a short time before you are dumped and he picks another...
you need to get self esteme and not find it in a man.. being hot isnt what this guy is looking for obviously...
if High School couples dont last - why are you obsessing with him anyhow???
2006-09-05 22:58:36 · answer #9 · answered by CF_ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious?!?!? Quit chasing after whats not meant for you to have and acting like he's the only gorgeous guy in the world! Find someone thats actually available
2006-09-05 22:56:23 · answer #10 · answered by chynadoll699 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋