My relationship lasted 6yrs. He is really nice when sober but does not know what he says or do when intoxicated. Out of the 6yrs I waited for him for 2yrs in a folly event he landed to be a convict. Since then I fear his moves and the company he mixes with, he understands that only when sober but when high he brings up issues of freedom. He deems all friends to be brothers but none of his brothers were there in the events of problems. Why I did the suicide was really not to seek his attention but to see how much of compassion he has for me? Recently he claimed he has changed jus 3 days ago, and just because I called him 4 times and smsed him 5 times in a period of 4 hours he claims that I will never trust him. Those calls made were just cause I was bored and wanted to have conversations. Can anyone trust a person in 3 days after bad vibes of 5 years? His adverse reaction was to have a divorce. Now I will just wait for him to give me the papers but I still wonder shld I sign?
2006-09-05 15:38:06 · 8 answers · asked by Catleen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you need some help from god
2006-09-05 15:44:12 · answer #1 · answered by 16 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but it seems to me that you are in a dysfunctional relationship and you would both be doing the other a favor by getting out of it and finding someone else that makes you happy and secure. Life's too short to go through crap like that all the time. As for the suicide thing...That was so dumb! Playing head games is not the way to go!
2006-09-05 22:43:56 · answer #2 · answered by barelyhere1960 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had problems myself in the alcohol department and one thing i can tell u is when your drunk u say what u feel and mean most of the time or u say things to hurt the ones u want too so obviously he doesn't care about your feelings sorry to tell u this but AA wont fix your problems you deserve better.
2006-09-05 23:26:53 · answer #3 · answered by Ray_Ray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is way deeper than surface stuff. Very dysfuntional. move on and get help to make yourself a better person for the next relationship in your future
2006-09-05 22:42:23 · answer #4 · answered by the answers are there 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both are for each other, a total melodrama, one of these days you will have your 15 seconds of fame when one of you show up dead on the news!
2006-09-05 23:18:01 · answer #5 · answered by elcabula2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sign them. It isn't healthy for either of you. Faking to committ suicide is bad, and he probably realized you and he are too far apart now.
You need serious counseling.
2006-09-05 22:41:50 · answer #6 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a screwed up person. I suggest you seek psychotherapy immediately, and dump that man immediately. You need help ASAP.
2006-09-05 22:41:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you might be better off without him
2006-09-05 22:41:07 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋