okay i have posted this everywhere and have not got any decent answers so plz znswer me i am so emotionally scarred from people i have never witnessed the good in people in real life because i was made fun of all through school and through highschool people would call me gay when i would cry because they were making fun of me and i would get mad at them then they would try to pull guns on me and even now when i go out somewhere people still give me mean looks and they dont even know me im like why im not a mean person and i dont carry myself like im big and bad because i know im not plz help me im so sad
2006-09-05 15:31:42 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
oh by the way the reason i put whats that smell was to get your attention
2006-09-05 15:32:32 · update #1
Cow poop
People are just like that. Growing up is never easy. As you get older and people get to know the real you they will treat you differently. I thought you asked what was that smell outside....
You know what is inside of you. Ignore what people call you and be true to yourself
2006-09-05 15:33:03 · answer #1 · answered by ▒Яenée▒ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok man, Im not sure how anyone can really give you a good answer. Are you sure that people are actually giving you dirty looks or have you developed a disorder from all the childhood teasing that makes you think that people are thinking negatively of you or looking at you funny? Have you tried walking around with a smile? If you project happiness outwardly, you usually receive this back from others. Also, its a bit hard to answer this question without having any idea about your appearance. Now, i realize that it is rather shallow to judge someone solely by there appeareance, but lets face it, many people do! If you are unhappy with your appearance, try making some changes like new hair style, facial hair, and so forth.
Ok, you must realize that if you look at yourself in a negative way, others may also look at you negatively. Work on your self esteem and see if this improves your relations with others.
Also, seek some counseling so that you can get over your childhood trauma.
If all else fails, learn some mixed martial arts and start kicking some butt!!!
2006-09-05 22:40:23 · answer #2 · answered by Shawn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a gym, get on a good protien diet. Work off every day, run, change clothes and wear some people will like. I fyou are straight fo to places where you can meet girls.
If you are Gay you will have to address that problem one day at a time with yourself.
Find the guy that botheredyou the most after getting your muscles and make him eat dirt.
2006-09-05 22:37:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohhhh, I'm sorry man but I'm probably one of those people making fun of you lol jk I don't make fun of people anymore...maybe people make fun of you because you're probably fat or something I think you should do some exercise like run for an hour every morning you will look better and feel better I'm sorry you are sad watch this and tell me if it doesn't make you feel better:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=r2b9SKAb8G8
And "ewww what is that smell" that was funny lol i wuz about to say sorry i haven't taken a shower in a while lol jk i took one this morning...
2006-09-05 22:33:40 · answer #4 · answered by ♥MG789♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya know i ws picked on too its rough to get over, I am 23 and it still hurts, i still feel like I did as that little fat girl being bullied on the playground when I think of the torment i went through it brings tears to my eyes!!! Also I dont know if this is your case but soemtime anxiety can be caused fromt hsi I have anxiety and feel liekppl are staring at me or lookin at me funnywhen they are not, and i think all my emotional problems i have now are linked to what hapenned to me in scholl. Go talk to a therapist and see about getting meds!! I had to..and though its painful to talk about it helps in the long run! god bless!!!
2006-09-05 22:38:09 · answer #5 · answered by Lilmisssassy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mean people suck! I strongly encourage you to explore this issue with a therapist to find out what you have done to become a target. It may be as simple as the way you carry yourself, good posture is so important. You do not have to remain a victim. You can be a confident person who portrays that to the world. You may have to move to get a fresh start.
2006-09-05 22:36:30 · answer #6 · answered by Trip S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People suck. Find some aliens to be friends with. Or move someplace else. Canada has always been full of friendly people, I think.
I also met some wonderful friendly people in Texas. I think they kick out the ones they don't like.
2006-09-05 22:36:37 · answer #7 · answered by auntiegrav 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It got my attention, alright! Sounds like you need someone to talk to. Try
www.radiouhelpline.com (if this websight is invalid, go to www.radiou.com)
Call a helpline. They can help you get your life back on track. Either that, or schedule an appointment with a counsler.
2006-09-05 22:34:10 · answer #8 · answered by I think... 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry all you need is self confidense..
*Are you gay? No. So who cares?
*People give you mean looks well who cares? maybe that's their real face!
*Just ignore rude comments and mean looks... they just do it 4 fun..
Oh and that is my sister.... you can smell her bad odor even through the internet!
2006-09-05 22:37:32 · answer #9 · answered by Marissa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i go through that alot so i should know ppl are just trying 2 get to you and when i just act like it has no impact on me they get upset because i dont care and i like 2 spaek my mind every chance i get and they feel really stupid dnt let them see you week because it make them want 2 be stonher and donminate i dont know if this helped but i just thought u should know
2006-09-05 22:36:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋