2006-09-05 15:28:15 · 12 answers · asked by Mae-Day 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT.
2006-09-05 15:30:01 · answer #1 · answered by annastasia1955ca 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Families get mad at each other all the time. If he is leaving because you got mad over nothing, then there is something else wrong. Maybe he is using that as an excuse to ease his own conscience because he wanted to leave anyway. Don't blame yourself...He is the problem!
2006-09-05 22:37:55 · answer #2 · answered by barelyhere1960 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, it's not your fault. He may be using a recent argument as an excuse, but I'm sure there's a lot more making him want to leave. Tell him how you feel and apologize if you did something wrong. Ask him why he really wants to leave, get him to talk about it.
2006-09-05 22:31:25 · answer #3 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A father who is loving a compassionate would never leave his children. My husband did not just leave me, but he left our children as well. He won't call, and he won't see them. It is not their fault, just as this is not yours. I know from experience it is not hard at all to blame yourself, even if you are not to blame. This type of stuff hurts deeply. I have joined counseling, to try to help my children and myself. If you are not already in counseling I would definitely say go. You are not to blame. People do things out of selfishness at times, and it is sad. I can't say that you will ever understand it, however, their must be some problem that he has within himself that is not right.
2006-09-05 22:40:09 · answer #4 · answered by Evie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how can his thinking about leaving be your fault just because you got mad over nothing. something must have went wrong with your parents marriage & it has nothing to do with you at all.
2006-09-05 22:33:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't control his actions. I'm sure you feel responsible but he's the one who is taking the action, not you. You can say you are sorry and apologize but I have to tell you that a father who leaves because his daughter got angry isn't much of a father. That doesn't mean you should disown him. It does mean that I'm convinced it's not your fault.
2006-09-05 22:37:38 · answer #6 · answered by DelK 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you are sorry for what ever you have done to upset him.If he forgives you then kindly ask him if he would like to stay longer.Good Luck!
2006-09-05 22:31:04 · answer #7 · answered by Shany248 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you love him. He will stay.
2006-09-05 22:52:41 · answer #8 · answered by out2getyouras 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey it it not your fault!!!!! Dont put this on yourself, it is not about you....
2006-09-05 23:27:03 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't blame yourself it's not about you the reason he is leaving.
2006-09-05 22:32:24 · answer #10 · answered by ladybug 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bribe or talk him out of it.
2006-09-05 22:30:10 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋