2006-09-05 15:24:02 · 14 answers · asked by Raine 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Other - Arts & Humanities
make the first move
2006-09-05 15:25:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. you don't ask him out. What if he doesn't want to go out with you? He will likely be too shy to refuse you. Instead, put yourself in a position to be asked out. This might take some ingenuity but at least give him the option of making the first move. If he doesn't ask you, consider the possibility that he is not interested, or if not, that he is too shy to ask you. Do you really want to be with a guy that is too shy to ask you out?
2006-09-05 15:32:45 · answer #2 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the Guy is Shy, than You're going to be waiting until You're Gray. Just ask Him Out.
2006-09-05 15:26:54 · answer #3 · answered by M L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him.. do the move. Just ask him to help you out on something or just tell him that youre bored and wait for him to ask you out or offer his help. :P
Im a shy dude too.. I should have gotten a lot of girlfriends by now.. but I always fall out whenever im getting into a serious relationship..
2006-09-05 15:27:13 · answer #4 · answered by rhkenji 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what I've always had girls do for me is flirt a little too much...then when he starts flirting back, start giggling (not like a special person), a nice smile helps too! He'll get the idea and if he keeps blowing you off he might not be interested. You just need to see.
2006-09-05 15:44:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you don't want to ask him out because you make him realize he is being really obvious. it could crush him. what you could do is some how make him feel confident enough to ask you. you'll see that he'll do it when he is ready.
2006-09-05 15:32:15 · answer #6 · answered by natie90 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i had a simular situation...(and i had never asked anyoneout before)and we are now going on 10 years in oct. so go for it...why not? the worst he could say is no....but then you know :)
2006-09-05 15:41:39 · answer #7 · answered by Bekah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one word of advice to you, the shy ones tend to be very possesive once they got you, so keep that in mind.
2006-09-05 15:35:38 · answer #8 · answered by acid tongue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like him ask him out
2006-09-05 15:27:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him, if he is not what you are expecting, why you need to wait~!
2006-09-05 15:43:56 · answer #10 · answered by Flexscan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋