Hi everyone.... I would be happy if you guys can spend some time on this and try 2 solve my prob.....I met a girl on the net some 2 years back... On the 1st meeting i lied to her about my status n identity.... now we have bounded very strongly....we are deep in love....even i m in love with her......now i feeling of guilty of hiding my identity n status...i wanna tell her who i m n what i m? but just dont know how to start with? please give your Suggestion ..
Thanks
2006-09-05 15:22:13 · 16 answers · asked by cool4u_007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If she doesn't know who you are, then how can she be in love with the real you? I think she'll have a trust issue ... why didn't you tell her sooner?
2006-09-05 15:24:48 · answer #1 · answered by Lady J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you won't be interrupted while you are spilling your guts and telling her the truth, write her an email. Come clean about anything you have lied about, and tell her you wanted her to know the truth before the relationship goes any further.
Then sit back and cross your fingers.
Good luck
2006-09-05 22:57:19 · answer #2 · answered by Slimsmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a tricky one considering every relationship is built on trust. Maybe by explaining to her firstly why you lied (maybe it was to save you embarrassment) be honest and tell her everything, if you were a loser and lied because of that then youd have a much better chance than lieing to her because you wanted something else. Good luck! and tell her you love her
2006-09-05 22:25:52 · answer #3 · answered by ♡MaNda♡ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when giving uncomfortable information you want to make sure you get it all out before they cut you off. A letter is a way of doing that. Start out with assuring her how much you love her and that is why you have to come clean with her. After the anger subsides she will remember that
2006-09-05 22:51:36 · answer #4 · answered by the answers are there 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i would suggest is tat u be frank to her once u have the chance,dun drag on anymore. Because if she gets to find out by herself,you're a goner for sure. If she loves u,she'll accept who u really are. BUT remember forgive & forget takes time,dun push her too hard...
2006-09-05 22:26:46 · answer #5 · answered by miki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should started telling her the truth if u don't tell her the truth she will find out and u be in big trouble. maybe u can tell her a little at a time and explain to her y u did that.
2006-09-05 23:06:12 · answer #6 · answered by Secret 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the hell where u hiding was it that bad. i don't think u should hide anything else and just tell her and explain why u lied, don't wait until its too late, u don't want to lose this person
2006-09-05 22:31:14 · answer #7 · answered by sweetie_pie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sucks to be you. You should have come forward much earlier. Tell her the truth and let me know how it works out.
2006-09-05 22:26:17 · answer #8 · answered by speedgy4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't love you - she loves the fairy tale of what you lead her to believe was you. She doesn't even know who YOU are.
Tell her the truth and do it soon. If you care for her at all, you owe her that much.
2006-09-05 22:35:04 · answer #9 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
vague details but, start with "i have to tell you something and hopefully things doesn't change between us." only problem with this is that it's usually a sign that you've lied one way or the other.
2006-09-05 22:24:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋