Should I forgive my best friend? She cheated on her Boyfriend with our HOMEGIRL'S BOYFRIEND. and our homegirl had her back when my best friend got jumped, and she stoped talking 2 me. My best friend called me and asked me to forgive her for the harm she did to us. What should I do?
2006-09-05 15:09:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
In my opinion there is no forgiveness for breaking one of the silent rules of freindship. BOYFRIENDS ARE OFF LIMIT! Yes it is true that everyone deserves a second chance, but come on. Another thing, is your homegirl still with this guy? It takes two to tango, don't just get mad at her but him too. Guys are going to be guys, but she should not have done that to her friend.
2006-09-05 15:15:44 · answer #1 · answered by 2good4hem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense, but try not to get involved. This is between your best friend, her boyfriend, your homegirl, and your homegirl's boyfriend. Where you should get involved is the fact that your best friend stopped calling and talking to you and if your friendship is really worth all the drama that seems to be created by her. I would forgive her but I would slowly crawl away from being best friend's so that you don't get hurt when she starts to ignore you again. Making new friends who will always be there for you are what ya need right now. best of luck
2006-09-05 22:20:55 · answer #2 · answered by scharfie528 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should forgive her, because it really doesnt involve you as much as your other friends. If u feel she deserves a second chance then yeah, forgive her, but tell her not to screw up again like that or else. But, also talk to your other friend (the one whos boyfriend cheated with her best friend), and tell her that your still like her friend too, and to not get mad at you because u are the other girls friend too.
lol ok.. a tounge twisterrrr
2006-09-05 22:17:13 · answer #3 · answered by j615 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would forgive, but i would also set boundries. Tell her how you feel and see how she feels. I have been there I forgave my best friend for stealing my husband and having 2 kids with him. We arent best friends anymore but we are socialble. She is very good to my son with him and keeps me more informed of his doings than his daddy does.
Life is to short to be angry all the time. Be the bigger person. Anger will only harden you and take away from your joy. Be peacful but cautious...
As they say keeps your friends close and your enemies closer....
2006-09-05 22:14:15 · answer #4 · answered by BJC 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
everyone deserves a second chance, but no more then that. and let her know that this is her one and only chance and she has to make it work.
she might have been having relationship problems with her boyfriend if she cheated on him though.
2006-09-05 22:12:36 · answer #5 · answered by Kay-Jay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she owes more than just your forgiveness. She needs to pass it around to all the right people involved
2006-09-05 22:39:03 · answer #6 · answered by the answers are there 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AWW go ahead and forgive her.Just don't close your eyes on her,she can't be trusted.
2006-09-05 22:13:23 · answer #7 · answered by country girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find another girl friend she did it to you once and she'll do it again a true friend would never do you that.
2006-09-05 22:13:07 · answer #8 · answered by JM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont forgive her! she was mean to your other friend!
2006-09-05 22:12:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
God for give , you can for get
be happy with her .
Anger will not give any happiness .
2006-09-05 22:14:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋