i am trying to move out of my parents house?

Question

i am going to stay with a firend im 14 my mother and i fight too much how do i tell them im leaving and how do i get out of town to my friends

we fight about other stuff but not wut u think

and my as for my friend she is 34

Answer 1

My advice for you is to Stay home, work hard in highschool so that you can get accepted by a good college. and stay on campus. At the same time, i don't think they hate you because the same thing happened to me and my dad. I moved to talahassee for FAMU.When i started to get older I realized that they where trying to make me somebody. While i was there, they came and visit me every weekend, they went to church with, they fix my room and cook for me. Also, i caught my dad telling her friend that one day, she will stop working three jobs because he thinks i'm his future. I'm not trying to say that your parents are right But, stay with your parents dude.!!!!!

Answer 2

Maybe you should try mediation first?

If you run to your friends house, your mom can make a big legal stink on your friend, and then they won't be happy.

Believe it or not, your mom has your best interests in mind, she just may not take the approach you might choose, that's why I suggested mediation. You could talk to a school counselor about that. Good luck...but stay cool...stay home.

EDIT:

You have a 34 year old friend? Must be something more. Heck, I'm 34, if a kid ran to my house the first thing I would do is call the parents if I knew the number, or the police if I didn't. If I suspected there was abuse, then I would only call the police. Your friend will be charged with kidnapping and put in jail if she accepts you and does not turn you in...just for your information. And no, I'm not trying to scare you...that is just what would happen.

You say you fight...so? News flash: all teens fight. And if you think your fights are special and different: news flash: they aren't.

Unless you are being abused, you will cause a big problem by running away, for your friend and yourself.

Answer 3

If I were you, I wouldn't. Talk to your school counselor and ask her for advice. Friends will be able to keep you for 3 days, but after that the'll be uncomfortable with you being there. Wait until you are 18 and then decide. Instead move away to college and live on your own so you'll know that your situation is not that bad. Find a Hotline for runaways that can help you deal with the issue. YOu are not alone and things can get better. In the mean time call the Alliance Against Violence near your home and talk to them. Good luck!
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Answer 4

you fight a lot because you're a teenager, not the adult that you think you are. whether you like it or not, she has the right to dictate many aspects of your life for the next 4 years. I'm sure you believe that you're never at fault and that she doesn't understand you, but I'd be willing to bet she knows a lot more than you think and is only doing things to protect you from making the mistakes that all teenagers make. The sooner you realize that she's human and treat her as more than your servant that owes you something, the better you'll get along.

I could also be totally off the mark and your mother's a crazy crack-whore, I don't know, the question is one-sided.,

Answer 5

I think you need to stop and think about all your pros and cons first. What are you going to do when you and your friend's parents get into an argument? Move somewhere else? At your age, you're always going to fight with adults; parents or no parents. What sense does it make to leave home at your age and move into someone else's parents home? You're going to clash with them too. You might as well stay home with the people that really love you (even though they get on your nerves). You probably don't even know what these other people are going to expect of you. They may want you to pay bills, or do something crazy. Think before you act.

Answer 6

Please. At 14, all you do is argue with your parents. No matter what they do, it's never good enough or it's not what you want to do. I'll tell you this: unless you're being abused, molested, or in a dangerous situation, I suggest you stay. How many happy endings come from people leaving home at 14?

Answer 7

Legally you can not just leave your parents house without their permission.I suggest you and your mom have a long talk and try to work this out. 14 is a hard age for you.How do you think you would support yourself at the age of 14?

Answer 8

Most teenagers and parents don't always get along. You are apparently still a minor (that means your parents still get to take care of you and tell you what to do and where to do it), so don't blow too much out of proportion and get a grip. Try harder to get along with your parents/guardians and you will be able to move out legally soon enough.

Answer 9

Good Luck. Your parents probably aren't going to just let you go. Maybe you should try talking to your mom about why you fight so much and try to work things out with her.

Answer 10

You don't.. stay home for God's sake. You and your mother probably fight about her not letting you do what you want to protect you.... right? Not getting your way at home and want to leave? Tell us what you fight about and we can answer more sufficiently.