i am going to stay with a firend im 14 my mother and i fight too much how do i tell them im leaving and how do i get out of town to my fiends
2006-09-05 14:50:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if you haven't a clue how to tell ur parent you may be too young to go anyplace but to a shelter.only four short years ago you were ten. too young to be on your own, but now ur are all grown up. no education,no car, no job,no skills, but going to live with a friend, maybe this will proove to mom ur grown up.....not likely! do you have any idea how many children of 14 are walking the streets looking for daily food ? go to your locale police station they can help and they can find you a better place. with Love to you whodad
2006-09-05 15:07:41 · answer #1 · answered by whodad 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl, I know mothers can be tough to handle. Going to stay with friends won't help. Get help from someone close like your mum's sister or friend. Get her to help you to sit down with your mum and talk. Tell her how you feel. Listen to your mum's side also. Communication is the cause of all problems. Be a best friend to your mum. She is blood and will protect you always. Try my suggestion. I am sure you will solve the bad blood you have with her. Girl you are only 14. You are still young and growing. Imagine if you have a daughter that will not communicate with you, how will you feel
2006-09-05 22:00:39 · answer #2 · answered by Imagine 1952 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How are you going to provide for yourself? Believe me this is a serious issue. I was away from home for 45 days and lost 10 pounds out of sheer starvation (even though I was at someones home). I am an adult, but at the time I was out of work, out of money, etc.
Anyway when it comes to you, some other people (that not your family) may show some good will but they wont feel they are under the responsability of really taking care of you.
There must be some institution you can go to for help (family couseling, etc).
2006-09-05 21:55:22 · answer #3 · answered by Graça 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope you know what you are doing? You might be fighting with your mom but you are safe there. Do something that could give enough space between yourself and your mom. I am almost positive that at 14 years you would`nt be able to take care of yourselves. Try to get good education and a good job and then think of it. If you think only of today, you may not have a future. Take care, God bless you.
2006-09-05 21:58:37 · answer #4 · answered by suman 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not old enough to move out on your own. Your parents can have you picked up and brought back home or to a juvenile center. Better try to work things out. I hope this helps.
2006-09-05 21:56:46 · answer #5 · answered by organic gardener 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You way to young, stay home...
2006-09-05 21:59:24 · answer #6 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋