im 15 yrs old n'd have no idea how or wen to tell my parents (i just found out) thankfully im still with my babies father(my b/f) and hes okay with the whole thing we just don't have a clue on how to tell our parents? any advice????
2006-09-05 14:50:18 · 28 answers · asked by Jasmine M 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Ok, this will be easy for me to tell you cause the exact thing happened to me but my ex didnt stay. Anyways... when he tells his parents they'll be disappointed but they wont have a hard time like your parents will. There is no right time honestly cause im mean to them were still there babies. Since you just found out I'd tell them now.
The sooner the better, cause if your mom see's signs of prenancy and see's that you've missed periods, etc. She'll find out for herself and be even more angry than would be of you wouldve have told her sooner. It's hard I know, you'll cry, scream, yell, be confused, scared, nervous, etc. But there gonna be disappointed and shocked but there not gonna abandon you...
I mean you there own. So dont worry they love you but it will take time for it to hit them. If you wait too long it'll be harder on everybody, especially yourself. Just tell them and get it off your chest cause its alot of stress. Just tell them straight up, be like "Mom, dad, I have something that is hard for me to tell you, but im... pregnant."
Hope I helped and there plenty of girls goin through the same thing. I went through it, and I "think" im goin through it again.. :S
2006-09-05 14:58:43 · answer #1 · answered by [Pro♥Mom] 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know what's worse, the fact that you're 15 and already having sex and are too stupid to use protection, or the fact that you abbreviated "and I would" to "n'd". Either way neither you nor your "babies father(ur b/f)" are fit to bring a child into this world, so tell your Dad you are a whore and get an abortion.
Alternatively just send me an instant message if you want me to kick you in the stomach, which believe me, I'd be MORE than happy to do.
2006-09-05 14:54:21 · answer #2 · answered by Slappywag 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Go to a pregnancy center and get some advise and maybe even a mediator to go with you to your parents. I made a decision when I was 18 that I thought was in MY best interest, I am now 37 and I have regretted the decision ever since. Get some advise and some mental support, that will help you for the rest of your life.
2006-09-05 14:59:50 · answer #3 · answered by K B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its not easy. But if its true then there is no time to wait. Just think. Your mom and dad might be happy about a grand child. Mabey not at first, but eventually they will love a baby. Keep in mind, it will not be easy. Do it together. Oh ya and by the way, I have two kids and one on the way, I am married, and I still hate telling my parents. It does not get easier. Just do it!
2006-09-05 14:57:16 · answer #4 · answered by sr22racing 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell them now and let it sink in. Get all the yelling and stuff over with. Tell them together. Try to do it with all the parents at once so you don't have to go thru it over and over. 15 is young and they may decide you are too young and offer up an adoption. Don't feel too bad, you are still young and babies are alot of work.
2006-09-05 14:53:51 · answer #5 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
place the baby with a loving married couple that can not have a child of their own. They can provide for the child in ways you never could and frankly my tax dollars are stretched too thin as it is now supporting teenagers that think it will be "oh so neatoh" to play mommy!
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2006-09-05 15:17:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
15 yrs old. Are you ready to live this life? It's going to be hard to find work (or education) and take care of the baby at the same time... You're going to have to be straight foward with your parents. Only they can support you now. Just tell them everything and hope they understand. Good luck! you're SERIOUSLY going to need it...
2006-09-05 14:53:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I was 16 when i had my first child. I was SO SCARED. so i understand what you are going through. Its going to be very hard on your parents and they are going to be in shock and may start yelling and so forth. The best thing to do is tell them as soon as possible before it gets to late. If they talked to you about sex than you should of went to them ahead of time to tell them you were having sex and need birth control but thats to late.. You need to explain that you understand everything they say and people make mistakes. Sit them down, and tell them calmly as possible..
Good luck.
2006-09-05 14:59:42 · answer #8 · answered by BlueEyes4172004 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What can of a life will you give the child?
Yes, tell your parents, and maybe they'll raise him/her correctly since they didn't with you.
OR give your child to a loving home with two parents. More than likely, you'll get to see your child, but a couple will have the responsibility.
Just some suggestions.
2006-09-05 14:55:03 · answer #9 · answered by Nani 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
sit your parnets down invite both ur bf's parnets and ur parnets to dinner and just tell them.they love u and no matter what you do they always will love you and their grandchild.do not get a abortion whatever they tell you keep the the baby you will be happy you did there are many health risks to abortion.just come out and tell them mom dad i am pregnate.
2006-09-05 14:56:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋