2006-09-05 14:48:07 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Stupidity! Those men need to learn the hard way that the grass may be greener on the other side of the fence, but your grass may only need a little fertilizer. Men need to learn to want what they have. Wanting what you have is learned! Ask any guy in a long term marriage.
2006-09-05 14:52:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, for the person that asked what nest means, it means home, or, the environment a person shares with the one they love.
Second, I am currently trying to figure out the same thing. I think some people (some being men and some being women) are insecure and need to gratify themselves, and need reassurance on their role as a man (or if it's a female, their role as a woman).
On the other hand, I may be giving them too much credit. And it that case, it's because their selfish and want their cake and eat it too.
Like I said, I am still trying to figure it out. But either way, it isn't fair to the other person who is being loyal. And it is just flat out wrong.
2006-09-05 21:56:23 · answer #2 · answered by Rainbrain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard the saying "The grass is greener on the other side"? Men become attracted to someone, and all reasoning becomes distorted. They start to find every excuse in the book to do what their inner worst part wants to do. If they didn't do this, then they would have to admit that they are overcome by sinful urges. This, they don't want to do. So, the victim becomes the person at fault. They start to tell people about their wife's terrible faults, and then people start to believe she brought all of this upon herself. It is her fault. She is a bad wife. Her poor husband had to go out and find someone else. Poor thing!
2006-09-05 22:00:16 · answer #3 · answered by itwog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They seem to want us to believe that they're straying because it's the wife's fault or something lacking in us....
The truth is, there is something missing inside THEM. They usually stray not because they need sex, but because they need a huge ego boost. "Being consumed with physical passions" has nothing to do with. "Being overrun with selfishness, stupidity and insecurity" usually does.
2006-09-05 21:57:56 · answer #4 · answered by CassandraM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because of the urge,it's human instinct (well mostly only for men)I find it relatively normal,but at times it can go out of control and that's not good.There's nothing wrong in discharching your passion in the loving arms of your lover but don't let it ruin your future 'cause there's more things than women.
2006-09-05 21:52:27 · answer #5 · answered by hard ball!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because men that do this are not real men but boys who lack morals. But the better question would be: Why do their wives stay and put up with them?
2006-09-05 21:53:43 · answer #6 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man and women are animals. They just happen to be the highest form, but instinctively men are driven to have multiple partners while women limit themselves to one lover... just like in the wild
2006-09-05 22:33:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aren't you a man? How can you ask that question? Are you saying the answer isn't clear to you?
Trying thinking with your brain instead of your johnson.
2006-09-05 21:51:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well they stray cause they feel like it and they are consumed! Hopfully by a sucubus!
2006-09-05 21:53:43 · answer #9 · answered by jessy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because men happen to be less romantic than women.
2006-09-05 21:50:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋