And let themselves and their lives swell and not feel or do anything about it? Why do they not want to improve themselves and their lives even if they do have the choice and option to do so??
2006-09-05 14:40:44 · 10 answers · asked by Raines 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Also, people get sick and tired of things. But instead of getting sick and tired of things, why don't they do something about it instead of feeling sick and tired of things all the time?? Do they not know how to change that??
2006-09-05 14:42:44 · update #1
For example, if you get sick and tired of a job, you should find a new job. If you are sick and tired of a place, maybe you should find a new place. But, how come people don't seem to do anything about getting sick and tired of some things or want to change that.
2006-09-05 14:45:54 · update #2
YOu know my job is to drive change in our company. To drive it forward.
My 2 years proffesional experience is, no matter what culture, changing hurts. Just try for 1 hour to wear your watch on the other wrist. How does this feel?
So I believe, if you wann ato make people change, they must want too. And how to manage it? By a big crisis or a big opportunity. Try this. Eg. I lost 50 pounds in a year (25kg) and why? I could not loose weight my whole live, till I understood, it can be made better. My live can be better. And I commited to the fact. I wanna live better, faster, more enjoyable, not limited by my weight. So I done it. That was my opportunity
What is yours and the one of your friends? :-)))))
2006-09-06 06:41:41 · answer #1 · answered by ssentinell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lots of sick and tireds here. are you sick and tired to?you write it a lot. some people who have no ambition to move on could be depressed and need some support and a few pushes to get them moving. maybe they just dont have the stamina to go on to something new so they just talk about it. maybe if u know these people you can put out some positive thoughts and try and understand them and maybe just u can give some encouragement and a little shove. Think positive. negative people usually need some help to change and some good friends to talk to that are positive people
2006-09-05 21:53:51 · answer #2 · answered by petloverlady 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not real sure but what i can say is i get tied of ppl complainin about how they dont have anything and they cant get ahead and yet they get all sorts of food stamps and welfar checks and they dont have jobs yet welfare pays for them to send their kids to child care centers...and the adults dont work. if u dont got what u need then get a job or 2 so ur kids can have what they need most in life and have a shot and in this day and age there is no sense or reason to bring a kid into this world if u cant afford one...get condoms and other protection...
2006-09-05 21:45:47 · answer #3 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people might not see anything wrong with their lives. they may not feel the need to change. then, other people may want to change but dont know how; they may have so many problems they dont know where to begin, and they just feel helpless and lost
2006-09-05 21:46:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sugar, I have been trying to figure that out for YEARS!!!
My sister, 15 years my junior, has three kids, no husband, no job, no respect, no nothing. She smokes cigs, crack, and takes pills. She has been like this for over 20 years. Nothing matters to her for any length of time. Nothing.
If you or anyone else figures this out, please share with me.
2006-09-05 21:45:57 · answer #5 · answered by rrrevils 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most do but either dont know how to or are too lazy.
or just use to their lives and figure there's no point.
2006-09-05 21:45:41 · answer #6 · answered by Eileen S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because it would requir work and change, they dont like to be told what to do. it scares them to think they have consiquences, so they try to convince themselves they dont, to escape from conscience
2006-09-05 21:43:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are lazy and don't think that trying to make things better is worth it.
2006-09-05 21:44:33 · answer #8 · answered by wondering 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You can't change them so live and let live.
2006-09-05 21:46:20 · answer #9 · answered by Mojo Seeker Of Knowlege 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
because they don't know how to fix it. to fix their lives and don't want to.
2006-09-05 21:46:58 · answer #10 · answered by tash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋