we were planning an end of the summer party together, then i went away for a week to be with my mom who i havent seen for a year, and during the week she calls me and basically brags about hanging out with this one guy i really hate and all this stuff. then i come back and she never calls me, and i finally call her on the last day of summer, because i want to hang out with her, and here she is, bragging how shes having the summer party that WE werew suposed to plan together, she has replaced me with another new best friend, and... oh get this, she dosnt even invite me to the party! she just tells me about it then gets off the phone! she would have never even told me about it if i had never called....... i was so pissed, and i truly think she screwed me over. i mean we were best friend, t then im gone for 6 freaking days and she has already replaced me! it makes me wonder how much of a "friend" she really was!
2006-09-05 13:51:00 · 12 answers · asked by kiss the cook 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i know exacltly where your comming from. She is definatly not that good of a friend to replace you in six days. I know it will be hard because you's were best friends, but you really dot need some one like that. espescially if she bragged about it.
2006-09-05 14:54:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's having the party you two were going to have together, told you she's replaced you, and doesn't invite you to the party. Yeah, if all of that is accurate, I think it's safe to say that at the very least, she decided to end the friendship, and in a fairly lame way - not very mature.
Time for you to get to know new people and move on. Don't waste time hating her - why give her that much power? You'll find people who really like you, and can be trusted, and pretty soon, she'll be "oh, yeah - I used to hang with her." In the meantime, she did you a favor, even if she didn't mean to -- she's sparing you the company of somebody who doesn't respect you or treat you very well. Good luck!
2006-09-05 20:57:45 · answer #2 · answered by peculiarpup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it. It seems she was just using you to do things. I have had several that I thought were my friends do the same thing. Especially in high school. Make other friends. Have a blow out party of your own and don't invite her. Make new friends and forget the old.
2006-09-05 20:58:23 · answer #3 · answered by mom of girls 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She totally screwed you mate - but count yourself lucky you found out what a two-faced ***** she is. Imagine if you'd continued being friends with her - who know's what she'd be saying about you behind your back!
2006-09-05 20:54:40 · answer #4 · answered by the_fatmanwalksalone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this called life,so whats the big deal,go have your own praty and don`t invite her.mhave fun
2006-09-05 21:09:35 · answer #5 · answered by julie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not very much of a friend at all.
2006-09-05 20:53:22 · answer #6 · answered by Milkman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. The person you thought was your best friend did.
2006-09-05 20:53:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you got screwed. that is life.girls are mean. just remember, what goes around comes around x 3
2006-09-05 20:55:53 · answer #8 · answered by EMOM 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she's not a very good friend. it sounds to me you were just someone to pass the time with. i'm sorry
2006-09-05 20:54:16 · answer #9 · answered by storm_magus3 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She's a user, plain and simple.
2006-09-05 20:56:35 · answer #10 · answered by Chatelaine 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋