i want to make a family , what should i do ?
2006-09-05 13:41:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
im 16 and i want to have a baby
2006-09-05 13:49:27 · update #1
your young
you dont have a job with enough money to support a family
and hunny your parents would beat u to death!
2006-09-05 16:05:26 · answer #1 · answered by Tammi =] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you are old enough to support a wife and kids before you make a family. If you have a college degree your chance of employment and getting a bigger pay check are better. Besides, you don't want to start a family but have nothing for them. (i.e. shelter, food, clothes...etc.)
If you want an idea of what making a family will cost make a mock-budget. Look for a house and see how much it cost. Then look at baby stuff (dipers, bottles, clothes, etc) and budget for the week. Then figure you cothes, car, going out w/ ur wife everyonce in a while...
or you can take the easier road and ask a few adults w/ families what it's like to provide for, have, create, etc a family.
the point of this is to show you that a family isn't something you should jump into esp when your a teen.
2006-09-05 20:54:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off you will never have a baby until you carry it for nine months then give birth to it...Second your 16 years old you dont know what you want! Thirdly you think it's all fun and games till your up every hour in the night when there school the next morning then work after school to support the baby!!!!There not free oh and i hope you also have the money to pay for $20,000 dollar doctor bill that's if the babies born healthy and can come home on time....Good Luck...
2006-09-05 21:03:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try getting a girlfriend first and growing up, at 16 your too young to even be thinking of starting a family its not like having a pet once you have a baby you need to be there for them 24/7..... while you might be planning a family even couples who have been together for years and know each-other so well struggle when a new born child comes along so think long and hard about it first
2006-09-05 20:59:05 · answer #4 · answered by leanne 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh My Gosh! You need to stay in school, graduate, go to college, get a good paying job, THEN find a nice girl, THEN make a family. I am 34, been married 13 years, and have five kids. We have a hard enough time now. I can't imagine doing this at 16. You don't realize what a HUGE responsibility this is. I just went back to school for nursing and it is hard to manage a family 12, 9, 5, 4, 2 on top of everything else we do. Please rethink this and don't be in such a hurry. Enjoy your young years cause you don't get them back!
2006-09-05 21:35:00 · answer #5 · answered by hotmama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats what you think intill you have one my friend is 14 and has a baby u think its easy trying 2 go 2 school and taking care of a baby
2006-09-05 21:54:18 · answer #6 · answered by YoungNCrazzii 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAIT! Wait till your out of college or almost out of college!! Dont ruin your highschool and some gurls highschool by making a baby!
2006-09-05 22:00:50 · answer #7 · answered by ɫɦɾouɡɦ ɫɦɛ ɛɣɛʂ oʄ ɫɦɛ ɑvɛɴɢɛd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well how old are you?
If your old then just find the right girl (or guy depends of preference)
and everything will fall into place
But if your young I Say wait finish school enjoy being young and you will find the right person later on in life.
2006-09-05 20:46:25 · answer #8 · answered by ♥♠mira 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first if you are of age then go and meet a girl and get married then have kids if this is for a school project then make up a girl and get married and then have kids good luck hope this is what you are needing
2006-09-05 20:46:04 · answer #9 · answered by christy b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait to have a baby. youll f**k up your future if u do. if u forse it on a girl that u want a baby. youll get a kiss off. u can handle her being pregnant easier then she can.
2006-09-05 20:52:53 · answer #10 · answered by japanese lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋