Can you have a continous sexual relationship with a woman for 5 years, and still not love her? How can you seperate your feelings?
2006-09-05 13:40:13 · 24 answers · asked by missing_something 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
For a lot of men sex is like a hunger. You get hungry you eat. You know where to go to get regular food you keep going back. It doesn't mean you love the food just means you are not hungry.
Love is altogether different.
Sorry we are such horrible creatures.
2006-09-05 13:43:26 · answer #1 · answered by teef_au 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are not wired the same way as women. Men can turn feelings on or off with more ease then women. A man can be content with a relationship for a long time if he is comfortable with it. Plus men are lazy, they don"t want to make changes. If a man is getting sex regularly and is having an occasional meal made, he'll stick around like a stray dog.
I'm not saying all men are like this, but definitely a significant %.
I can give some advise, a man might be jerked into realizing his feelings if there is a danger of losing a person. An ultimatum must be made, if there is love he will proceed, if not good riddance.
2006-09-05 20:48:50 · answer #2 · answered by Kit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a man but just couldn't help not to answer I had a male friend for 8 yrs !! Believe it or not we had an understanding at first he was married and I was single we dated but I didn't really have that love feeling for him years passed and like one of the guys said it's like you know where to go if you're lonely when he didn't have anyone we had each other sounds crazy? But it works he would tell me about his problems i would tell about mine even though it was about out relationship we were in !! We had what you call an open relationship and we were friends.. we discussed being an item but he said we would kill each other!! Meaning we were so much alike it would ruin us ...I don't know exactly your situation but it can happen but of course we have feelings for each other and he cares for me and we are physically attracted to each other but our mind is on a different level I can't explain it but he is my best friend that's a male w/ benefits!!
2006-09-05 21:10:37 · answer #3 · answered by classy chic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is not for everybody. we all need companionship but some dont want the committment that marriage brings. and for the question of how can you not develop feelings, its call putting up a wall and not crossing it. believe u me he feels what u feel just not in the same way. if you are looking for true love then u might want to stop the sex and just be friends which probably wont last long then leave yourself open for your soulmate that might be watching and waiting on you to make the right decission. good luck...
2006-09-05 21:06:35 · answer #4 · answered by hennesseywalton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The King will never lower his self to such filth..
A King must love a woman to be in her!
That other crap Men talk about is just bullshit and they are Male Whores. As a matter of fact a whore is a whore, whether its a man or a woman!
2006-09-05 20:43:44 · answer #5 · answered by The King 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, before my wife died, we had a very powerful sexual relationship and we had been married for 20 years.
2006-09-05 21:09:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a woman and have had the same male sex partner that is just for sex for 2 years. I am not in love with him in any way. Just good fun sex.
2006-09-05 20:43:10 · answer #7 · answered by erinjl123456 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never done it, so I cannot speak from experience.
There are some men that can separate those two things. I also think there are some women that can do it as well.
I don't think it's common for either sex.
Intimacy is intimacy.
2006-09-05 20:43:08 · answer #8 · answered by mrpeabody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everytime we orgasm, we feel differently.
When a guy treats a woman like an object, like a door mat, he can wipe his feet on her, kick her and walk all over her. It's easy because she isn't a person, see...she's an object.
2006-09-05 20:43:58 · answer #9 · answered by hellsbells 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I couldn't stay with a woman for five years if I didn't love her. Hell, I can't stay with a woman that I DO love for five yrs.
2006-09-05 20:47:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋