the guy im kind of with ims me the second i sign on, ims me when i have an away up.. and if i dotn answer an im within a minute he thinks i am avoiding him and gets pissed
in person he is really sweet and funny and hot and amazing.. but i cant take the online situation anymore.. i cant block him either bc he has multiple sns that i dunno...(and he could check if i blocked him.. and obviously hed get mad)
what do i do?
2006-09-05 13:36:51 · 5 answers · asked by mervelash 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He probably doesnt understand that not everyone has the time he has to sit around at their computer and immediately answer every time they get an instant message. I had a problem with someone like that once. You just need to stop getting online or stop letting him see you online (stay invisible so he can't see you no matter what sn he is using). And if that doesn't work, talk to him about it and tell him if he doesn't quit, it's over. He'll listen.
2006-09-05 13:50:37 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you got a problem sweetie. He is apparently a control freak. If he gets mad about something as insignificant as IM's, imagine how mad he would get about life situations......
Just my opinion, could be wrong, but this is the vibes I am getting on this...
2006-09-05 20:40:05 · answer #2 · answered by debi_0712 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple. If you have to log on to Yahoo IM, just set it in the preferences to show you invisable when you sign on, or you can choose to stay off line.
2006-09-05 20:41:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would dump him. His extreme controlling nature is coming out on the Internet.
2006-09-05 20:39:36 · answer #4 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe just tell him ur busy and can't IM right away or just tell him 2 wait a while b4 IMing u. or tell him 2 plz stop
2006-09-05 20:40:19 · answer #5 · answered by wildcat 4 lyfe! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋