ok my bf zain weve been together for 3 months now and well he lives on the other side of the state.and the one day we get to see each other... i see him kiss another girl i tryed to act like nothing happened and it didnt work.after i went and sat down and he came and sat next to me i just started yelling! i dont know if i should dump him or not!!!!!
2006-09-05 13:18:25 · 24 answers · asked by vollyball bebe 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Dump him. He's obviously cheating on you. If he lives on the other side of the state, who knows what your bf does everyday??
2006-09-05 13:21:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe the 22 answers before mine. So quick to judge this crowd is. I am going to be the contrarian here b'cos you are getting bad advice!
Ask yourself this question - had you and him explicitly discussed and agreed on a monogamous (Let's only date each other) relationship. If you had and he broke the agreement - then you should confront him and see what he has to say. If you had never agreed to such an arrangement - he might be thinking it's ok to date other people without considering it cheating on you.
2006-09-05 19:01:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him!!!!!! If after just three months he's kissing another girl kick him to the curb it will only get worse. Needless to say it sounds like your jealous or something you don't trust to cause the yelling. You have to ask yourself why.
2006-09-05 13:30:36 · answer #3 · answered by mandy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like an easy enough question to answer. yes you dump him, theres no excuse for cheating on you, none at all.
you had all the right yelling at him, so dont feel sorry for him, cause you did that. just dump him, and find yourself a guy that hopefully wont cheat and lives closer!
2006-09-05 13:25:03 · answer #4 · answered by d_sharde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd dump him. You've only been seeing him for 90 days and he has proven himself to be little bit of a jerk. I'd find someone closer to home.
Dating is to find out if you are compatible. In these 90 days, he's been kissing other girls, and you've had a temper trantrum. Doesn't sound like "love" to me.
2006-09-05 13:26:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP DUMP DUMP! If the day you see him, kissing another girl. theres a big chance hes done it before! Dump him and have fun doing it! He is a cheater and he doesn't deserve someone good!
2006-09-05 13:22:43 · answer #6 · answered by laxplaya1357 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should dump him. You guys sound like you're young, and if he cheated on you, and you saw it, and he wasn't apologetic, he isn't worth it.
Plus, long distance relationships are a huge strain unless you two are mature enough to handle it and be faithful to each other.
Besides, you've got potential, right? This guy sounds like he isn't worth your time, and your wasting yours if you stay with him.
2006-09-05 13:24:17 · answer #7 · answered by 17unsolvedmysteries 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well do you mind him kissing other girls? Doesn't sound like you much like it though. So, Dump the creep!
2006-09-05 13:25:17 · answer #8 · answered by Cammi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what kind of kiss? would you be upset if a girl who hejust meet kised him on the check? in that kind of teasing way that women do win they have not meet a guy in a while
2006-09-05 13:25:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, cause you are the "out of town" girlfriend what you saw was the "in town" girlfriend
2006-09-05 13:28:41 · answer #10 · answered by knujefp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋