why do so many people judge others before they meet them just becouse someone says there bad?

Question

theres a girl at my school who everyone tells me not hang out with but when i did she was cool

Answer 1

people are sheep

Answer 2

Good for you..make your own oppinion you are not a follower and that is great... that is right People are like sheep...my Older daughter was talking to some people at her 14 year old sisters school and there was some stupid mothers that said..that their school was kinda clickish...and that was a good thing because her daughter (one of the Mothers speaking ) was a follower and that was good...How you figure that was good I remember being told not to be a follower has things changed..or did i miss something or are children being told to be followers ..I was taught to be an independent person...I remember when my mother used to get so upset over that ..she would say if your friends jumped off a bridge ..you will too....so what happened..??...

Answer 3

You be your own person. I'm not saying you shouldn't listen to people when they tell you someone is bad...because sometimes they're right, but when they say those things, keep them in mind, but don't let them decided FOR you. You aren't stupid. You can get to know someone and decide for yourself, and who knows? If the person IS a little bad (I don't mean like a criminal), maybe being friends with them will influence them to be a better person. If they're not really bad, maybe other people haven't given her a chance to be their friend.

Answer 4

I comprehend what your toddler has to benefit from Stewart and John, yet because you do no longer prefer to apply your breasts to help the survival of your new child, i do no longer think of which you rather love that youngster, if so you will possibly ask them no count in case you should circulate in with them too, as toddler foodstuff producer. So write your new child, that to you your daughter is "this element, they have been humanising" and which you weren't "brave sufficient" to abort the being pregnant in the previous viability, in case you do no longer look after her, in case you do look after her, choose for to be her mom, to the perfect degree attainable.

Answer 5

Low Self esteem.

Answer 6

Because 9 out of 10 people will not empower you so you have to listen to your innerself. Young men, (I was one once) usually are afraid to express themselves when it comes to girls. You have to not listen to anyone but do what you feel is right. Break down that wall of fear and go for it!!!!!

Answer 7

wanna hear something funny, i started dating this chick when I was sixteen and my friends told me not to, she was not cool enough. I was stupid enough to listen, I saw her once after that when she was 21 and OMG she looked like a supermodel, I still bang my head against hard objects when I think about it.
WHACK!! WHACK!! WHACK!! WHACK!!
I'd better go, I'm bleeding all over the place.

Answer 8

you no how some people is is that if somebody tell them something they go by wht that person said and run with it and go around tellin people this is wht such and such said but you not supposed to do that if somebody tell you this is how this person act dont go by wht that person said cause they could be wrong. you go up to that person and ask them before you just go around telling people things about someone cause i wouldnt like dat. if somebody got somethin to say about me dey can say it 2 my face or dont say it at all. cause you cant judge a book by its cover just because it look stupid doesnt mean its stupid.so dont judge nobody unless you get to no tht person very well cause tht person might end up helping them and tht person might end up beong there bestest real friend they have. so the moral of this whole thing is not to judge somebody before ypu really get to no them all like that.cause thts very wrong to do somebody like that and you wouldnt wont nobody doing that to u so u dont do that to nobody else cause u reap what you sow.and wht they do to someone its gon end up turning back around on them and the same thing is gon end up happening to them to.So they need to just keep there mouths closed and find out wht that person is about before going and judging them ya dig.and if they happen to be the way you thought they was u was still wrong cause you still dont judge nobody until you really really know if that true for sho,cause sometimes i do that but i figure out who that person is about before i tell somebody thats how that petrson is cause im not like that and i never will cause i dont want people making false judgements about me so i wont do it cause then ill be mad.and then it will be problems.thats why i just keep my mouth shut. and then if the thing is true and i find out about it by that person they i probably will go around and tell other people other than that these people at yo school nee to shut da **** up and get on with there life instead of trying to ruin other peoples life.
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Answer 9

people are shallow