My bf proposed after 6 months. I truly wanted to marry him. I said yes, but I was also scared, and wanted him to meet my family, and formally propose, not roll over in bed and show me a ring. He also mentioned we had to get married then or it would not work. I also thought to date another few months, and then get engaged for 1 year was not unreal, and it takes time to plan a wedding. We had time constraints bc I had to leave for a job 2000 miles away and he can't leave his job. Then he said we'ld get married years in the future bc that is what I wanted.
Now he seems mad at me, and has broken off the relationship with me.
I am rational, no? Or does this act totally destroy a man's pride and ego. I have assured him I want to marry him and love him and would do it tomorrow.
It seems common for people to postpone or ask for some more time, and if the couple is strong and they love each other they wait till the time is right for two people, no?
2006-09-05 13:07:08 · 4 answers · asked by mary h 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why would you say that you would marry him tomorrow? Those are just words and you do not mean them. You hurt him because he wants you all or nothing... that is the way that he loves you. He should ask your parents first, but it seems that his world is all "you and him." What are you afraid of?
2006-09-05 13:11:51 · answer #1 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-06 11:47:34 · answer #2 · answered by kelm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my feonce poped the formal question a yr and a half ago and now wont set a date. men are weird creatures. i should have stuck to women.
good luck sweetie. and he is very irrational
2006-09-05 13:11:20 · answer #3 · answered by chlo_bo69 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
my hubby and i met feb 2000...dating april 2000...engaged april 2002 and married october 2003.. we are 23 and 25 and ben together 6 1/2 yearsnow...but please wait!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!when you get ready,...
2006-09-05 13:10:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋