how and where can a 40year old man find a date that is not out for his $?

Answer 1

so where do you live I have my own money for dates and love men !!! feel free to write

Answer 2

Since you are asking this question, you have one of two situations you are facing, maybe even both scenarios.

1 - You have a considerable amount of money or you are
at least doing well for yourself.
2 - You don't trust your instincts. Women call it "intuition"

At 40, good night lets hope you can spot a phony a mile away by now.

Number one, only date women that have healthy relationships with either their: natural Father, Stepfather, one or both Grandfathers or some man one or more generations older than she is that she has a blood relation with such as an Uncle. I AM TOTALLY CONVINCED that females that have not been raised around a MAN that they love are just about useless in terms of having a relationship. Many females without a HEALTHY male guardian have been "dittled by Chester the Molesters" and have serious issues.

What about the women that have as much money (or more) as you? Stay away from "single Moms" with no cash (take it from me).

I will admit that the odds are against you because there are lots of "females" running around these days and just a few "Women". No ladies, simply having the proper genitalia and being a certain age DOES NOT make you a woman any more than the same criteria makes a "male" a man.

Just trust your instincts and handle "business" with these females/women. You were shrewd enough to get your hands on some real money, be real enough about what you want to get the same in a woman.

Most of all, don't be a sap, punk or a symp. Don't beg these tramps for anything. Let a female know if she can't get with your program she can KICK ROCKS (get lost)

Well, if you can do all that you are about to come off like a major Player, just like Telly Savalas.

Who Loves Ya' Baby

Answer 3

Try going to a river, lake, concert, dog park, or anywhere casual. Dress casual, no expensive watch, shoes, etc.. NEVER discuss your finances, your retirement, your home or your property with a lady you meet. If she's a lady she certainly won't ask about these things anyway. It's not the business of any woman what you own or what your assets are. And run like hell if she "hints" at things she would like to have in the shop windows when she is with you! So many women do that to a friend of mine, it's sickening. If she wants it she should buy it herself unless it is some extremely inexpensive item.

I wouldn't be deceitful and tell lies. If you should find someone special, she would resent the dishonesty later no matter how justified. Better to say nothing at all or be extremely vague.

Best of luck to you.

Answer 4

Learn how to recognize the look and mannerisms of a high-maintenance woman and steer clear! Stop referring to yourself as a "high net-worth individual" Ha, just kidding, I hope!. No, really, I knew a man who said that to "catch chicks" then I had to listen to him complain that the only women he found were "gold diggers". Go for group hikes or bike rides. The Sierra Club sponsors things like that, or check with your local park department. Strike up conversations in the grocery store. Women love to talk about food! I wish you luck!

Answer 5

Be an active volunteer of your time. Many single women take up ushering at theaters, volunteering at hospital gift shops, working at golf tournaments, etc. just to get out and mingle. Do the same. Pick a volunteer job that would be in your area of interest. Check your local volunteer opportunities notices in newspapers, on-line, or posted in various locations.

Answer 6

My friend went out with a guy that bought cheap thrift shop clothing on the dime, bought used shoes, had a 20 year old car with broken windows, no air conditioning, and ate very little to lose weight and spend less. No doubt a millionaire living by the sea ALONE at 62 y.o.a. She dropped him as HE sponged off her generosity.

$$$$$$$$ isn't everything. It's misery.

Answer 7

Well just how rich are you!...lol...just kidding (couldn't resist). You have several options and may choose from one or more of the following:

Depict yourself as a middle class or under class guy on a dating web site. No one knows you there at all so you can lie all you want. (Though I wouldn't.)

Date women that do not know what your profession is and sort of play down what you do when they ask what your profession is. For example, if you're a brain surgeon, instead tell them you do basic chores at a hospital because you love helping others. You don't have to say exactly what you do. Just say you've been helping out in the neuro department...if she asks specific questions just say "I still haven't figured it all out myself," and/or "sanitization is my main concern which I take care of (cleaning up the room, etc.)!"....hey, make it creative!...lol...you get the picture.

Ask her, "Can I borrow $50? I'm running a little short on cash this week, but promise to pay you back in a week." (make certain you do pay her back).

Forget to shave for one week and casually say..."I really apologize for the fuzz. I ran out of razor blades, but plan on getting some when I can afford it."

Date a woman that earns at least twice as much as you or more.

When you invite a woman to your mansion tell her it's your friends place and he lets you hang out in it when you wish because he feels sorry for you because you currently don't have a place to live....landlord kicked you out for falling behind on the payments in your apartment.

If she still wants you after all of the above then she is a real keeper and a gem. My husband was poor when I met him and still is and it didn't matter at all to me because he is so sweet and beautiful from within and that's all that counts. ;-)

Answer 8

whereever u go dress the role if you don t want noone to want you for ur money don t be flashy go to a singles mingle or maybe even bingo lotta women at bingo or walk in the park u know the big metroparks like swan creek park and i m saying this particular park because i have a feeling u are from my city toledo

Answer 9

Smiling.....well, how much money DO you have?

Just kidding.

We women are not all out to get what we can...many of us do okay by ourselves, we just want a man to share our lives with us, love us, hug us, touch us.

Anyway, back to your question. Houston is a good place...Texas in general is, really. Oh, my bad...you are talking about a female, right?

Good luck!

Answer 10

lol First of all, don't advertise that you have money (assuming you do.) That way, you'll know if she likes you for yourself or your money (if you do have any.) Wear something casual but clean, drive someone else's car if you have a nice one. Pretend to be average for a bit, until you know she's really just interested in you for you.

Answer 11

the same place a woman can find a date with a man who's not out for his booty!
(you left out the work 'just'...so I did too!) Get a grip...everyone's out for something...but it's what's in their heart is what matters. YKWIM? i.e., she might be out for his $$$, but she also might be out for his heart...and also might be the best thing EVER for him! Turn it around...you might be out for the booty, but you also might be out for her heart too, and be the best thing ever for her!
See what I mean? You're too BLACK & WHITE...there's a lot of GREY in between you're missing out on!