Well I have been in a relationship for 1 year there is a 2 month old child in volved but he is not mine, she found out she was pregnant when we were dating I really didnt mind her being pregnan but what I found out that she kept in contact with the father of the child and lied to me about it, I am a good looking guy and she is gorgeous but she is to jealous of me I cant go to the gym and cant go out with friends for poker but while I am at work she goes out shopping and hangs around her friends which I dont mind but she can do it and I cant well as time passed by I asked her for her cell phone bill and she said she will call and get it for me time passed by and she never got it for me, she left on a trip with her family for 2 weeks and I told her that if that did not get the phone bill dont bother coming back home she admits to stop talking to guys but she had enough time to prove it to me and not here my attitude but know she is back and I told her its over but she wont let me go.
2006-09-05 12:58:32 · 10 answers · asked by crazy 4 somethin' real 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She won't let you go because at this time she is desperate for a father for her unborn child. It's not that she cares that much for you. but that she sees little chance of attracting someone else, in her present condition.
Don't make any permanent arrangements with this girl; she sounds like she can't be trusted.
Let her know that you'll stand beside her in time of need, but she has to prove her trustworthiness over time. Betcha she calls the baby's daddy the night of the birth; wanna bet!
2006-09-05 13:06:18 · answer #1 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, she can't do anything but let you go if you move out (or have her move out), stop taking phone calls, stop all contact. If after that she's still around, it's time for a restraining order. The police will explain that you are serious about this.
Extreme? Not if this woman, who you know lies to you, and possessive and jealous, and holds you to standards she won't meet refuses to go away and stay away.
Read back over what you wrote and all of this might get clearer for you - you know she lies, often. You know she says she'll do things, then doesn't do them. You know she expects you to live by standards she won't follow herself. If that's what you want out of a relationship, then you have no problem. If it's not, then it's time to stop letting her intrude herself into your life.
2006-09-05 20:05:04 · answer #2 · answered by peculiarpup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she won't let go, then that is her problem. Tell her flat out that it is over and why and that's it. Time to get on with your own life.
If she is still talking to the ex, there is a really good chance that when this baby comes along, they will end up together.
2006-09-05 20:01:41 · answer #3 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
man plz she is still talkin to this guy and another thing she can do what eva she wants and u cant and u put up with it? oh no u dient...how old r u? last time i checked u had a motha and it wasnt her.. now u need to take ya a.s.s and move on while she is gone..tell her u r tired of being on lock down while she is cheatin and anotha thing the last time u checked u was too damn fine to be sittin home ....give the biatch a quarter too..when she ask whats it for tell her to call her babies daddy like she has been doin
2006-09-05 20:05:33 · answer #4 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be open and honest with her, basically tell her what you have said here, tell her what you think is wrong with the relationship and what you think needs to change, be ready beforehand though with which points you would be willing to make a compromise, (like she may not be willing to show you past phone bills, but agree to show you all future ones) tell her that if things don't change, then you will have to end the relationship. Personally i think it is unreasonable to expect her to end all contact with the father of her child, as he will most likely want to be involved with raising him. however if you think that this is important to you then she will end it if she's not willing to compromise this point.
2006-09-05 20:07:58 · answer #5 · answered by Paul H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop her like a bad habit! This woman is BAD news! She is self-serving, self-absorbed and she is USING you. Make it plain to her that it is over, you do NOT want to see her any more. Do it in a public place, take her to lunch, and make sure you get your point across.
2006-09-05 20:05:55 · answer #6 · answered by Albannach 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of you sound extremely immature and petty with the overkill jealously thing. Goodness gracious, if you don't trust each other just let it go!!
2006-09-05 20:03:19 · answer #7 · answered by karen W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time for da boot.
2006-09-05 20:01:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She will do it until you leave her.
Won't LET you go? B.S.
2006-09-05 20:05:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have sex with her best friend she well leave
2006-09-05 20:04:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋