2006-09-05 12:57:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I want kids because I think I'd make a good mother. I don't want kids because I think we live in a ******* up world full of assholes. I just have to wait and see which feeling is stronger...
2006-09-05 13:17:33 · update #1
I want to have children someday because I would be a great mother and so would my partner. You said that you feel like we live in a messed up world. Well I agree, it'd be difficult for a child to have to go through the harrassment that we face. Yet, how better to correct this screwed up world than raise children who are not offended or scared of gay people? It's all in how you look at it. The world we live in isn't going to cause me to deny myself or my girlfriend the joy of parenthood.
2006-09-05 16:25:27 · answer #1 · answered by Mama23Girls 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am torn there. I want kids, but my partner, due to sexual abuses in her child hood, can't handle the prospect. I also realize that I am not emotionally in the space to have children. I do work with them, whenever I can, and I try to be a positive role model for any child. I love my niece and nephew and try to be there for them, too.
The only thing I can say is this. Be sure you want to have children before you do. Be sure you can give them a loving, stable, secure environment. Raise them in love, so that love will grow.....for everything and everyone.
2006-09-05 13:43:14 · answer #2 · answered by Autumn BrighTree 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm a lesbian and I definitely do want kids, but when the time is right. it will be after I settle down, fing Mrs. Right, get married and have my finances good enough to where I can support kids. Also, I have to able to deal with kids and put them first, becasue these days i only put myself first. That'll come as I mature more. The reason I want kids is to pass on my legacy and I want little parts of me and my future wife.
2006-09-05 13:22:37 · answer #3 · answered by indrep33 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Those in committed relationships and want kids. Who wouldn't want kids, being a parent is a gift and is among the greatest things you can do with your life (if you do it well, that is).
Since we're on the topic, why don't we ask why heterosexuals want kids? There's an overpopulation problem as it is!
2006-09-05 13:02:04 · answer #4 · answered by theonlymonsterdog 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 23:31:42 · answer #5 · answered by dudziak 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have three kids, I will soon be a grandfather. I wanted kids because I really wanted to be a mother. I wanted kids because Adolf Hitler wiped out 32 family members and I wanted lots of little people like me who could show sicko Nazi types that we survived. So kiss my keester Hitler.
2006-09-05 13:00:51 · answer #6 · answered by Augusta B 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Whoever is gay and wants kids, should have a loving family in any configuration they would like to call their own....case closed.
The more love the better.
2006-09-05 13:00:15 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No I don't want kids...I'm far to selfish and have too much to do in life.
2006-09-05 13:10:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
We want as many deviants on our side to get a bigger voice in politics
2006-09-05 13:05:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
no. i can barely look after myself let alone a child
2006-09-05 13:35:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋