ok ladies I have a question for ya.
would you ever ask a friend or relative to hit on or try to seduce your husband just to see if he would take the bait?
And if you did would you be upset with him if he flat out denied the offer but never mentioned it to you?
Is this a test to see if your faithful or something? If it is then it's not a very good one......only a idiot would mess with their wifes relative or friend
2006-09-05 12:12:30 · 28 answers · asked by RedEye 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I just cant help but think there are so many better ways to check if your spouse is faithful or not
2006-09-05 12:17:52 · update #1
I am not sure but suspect that "bait" is being put out there to see if i take it
2006-09-05 12:19:14 · update #2
No. I would not ever ask a friend or relative to hit on my husband or try to seduce him just to see if he would take the bait.
But, if I did, I wouldn't be upset if he didn't tell me about it. I would happy with the fact that he passed the test.
Yes, I guess the women who do this are trying to see how committed he is, or some way to measure his love. But that doesn't mean he won't cheat. It just means he doesn't want to cheat with your chosen decoy.
I agree, if I was to cheat on my husband it damn sure wouldn't be with a member of his family, best friend or anybody that I know he knows.
2006-09-05 12:27:00 · answer #1 · answered by SpittinThaReal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't do that to my hubby. If a wife does something like that, then she obviously doesn't trust him and is trying to see if he'll take the bait. That is a bad situation to put a man in, because men don't think the same as women...they are far more sexual creatures than women are.. and it is easier for them to have sex with no strings attatched(I'm not saying women don't do it also). It's an unfair thing to do, but she's doing it to see if she can trust her man....she must feel really bad about herself or be insecure.
2006-09-05 19:18:26 · answer #2 · answered by jealous of the moon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never ask a friend to hit on my husband to see if he would take the bait.
We have a good relationship. I trust him. He would never cheat, neither would I. We have a friendship and respect for each other.
If you feel like you have to check up on your spouse or "test" them what is the point of being together?
2006-09-05 19:20:30 · answer #3 · answered by Honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never test my husband like that. I have enough faith in our marriage. I can't get upset with him if other women are hitting on him. People flirt without realizing what they are doing. I believe that if you start with a really good relationship, you will see little signs in their actions and etc. if they begin to go outside the marriage.
2006-09-05 19:32:07 · answer #4 · answered by godwon2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women would be offended that a man didn't mentinon it. It is silly to put a man in that situation anyway because most will take the bait.
2006-09-05 19:16:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I would never do it. I don't need to "see or test" if my husband will fall for it because I KNOW my husband won't. It's called having trust in your spouse.
If people have a need to play a game like tells me they don't have trust in their relationship with their spouse and it's sad, especially if the spouse hasn't given them any reason to doubt them.
2006-09-05 19:18:58 · answer #6 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously I would never have the desire to do that .. if you have no trust in your relationship then what type of relationship do you really have. Apparently not a good one to play such silly games.
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brillant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-05 19:18:09 · answer #7 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have to do that to your partner than you should seek help for whatever( NOT YOU persay but the person doing the sneaky thing )
The husband might lie just to save the other person from getting their butt beat, cause he doesnt know it was a set up.
IF the husband found out , he might leave the wife for not trusting him
2006-09-05 20:00:57 · answer #8 · answered by wilowdreams 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never do that to my husband i think you deserve what you get.and why put a friend or relative in a situation like that?its wrong just as wrong as him falling for the set up.if you dont trust your mate than get out of it now.
2006-09-05 19:16:32 · answer #9 · answered by queen4clewis 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I wouldn't get someone I knew to try and seduce my husband. That's so childish. For someone to do that must not have much faith and trust in their marriage to begin with.
2006-09-05 23:26:12 · answer #10 · answered by MaeMae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋