What do you do when your hubby forgets that today is your birthday.
2006-09-05 12:03:24 · 23 answers · asked by medevilqueen 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
With out telling him in anyway.
2006-09-05 12:03:50 · update #1
i don't get mad. i'm just happy that his part of my life. his been there for me
2006-09-05 12:04:44 · answer #1 · answered by mommie2be 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh no! Really? I am so sorry. Come over here and let me give you a hug. Honestly. That has to hurt. You know what, I would sit down and talk to him about it. I would not be angry or blaming at all. I would see this as a major test of your ability to communicate as a couple. I would tell him that celebrating the milestones in your life together (birthdays, anniversaries, graduations, etc) are important to you. Don't play the guilt card. Instead, invite him to join you in marking these special days on a family calendar and then keep that calendar together to show your love for one another. I would try this before I would try crying and yelling.
2006-09-05 19:08:28 · answer #2 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey try and give the poor fella a bit of room to manover in case something else was preoccupying him. He may have honestly just forgot. So perhaps tonight when you guys hit the hay or tomorrow sometime than you can mention it to him and I'm sure he will feel unbarrassed but will attempt to make up for it. Best of luck and Happy Birthday To You. It's my birthday today also.
2006-09-05 19:08:12 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have a hubby but if I did I'd forget his birthday to get back at him.
2006-09-05 19:04:59 · answer #4 · answered by Bear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy him a calendar ... seriously you need to tell him that he deeply hurt you
Happy Birthday BTW
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brillant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-05 19:04:28 · answer #5 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I just went through this with one of my best friends. Finally I asked her and she said that she forgot the date--but she had never before, so I think she's just trying to cover her own butt. It hurts, but it would really hurt if it was someone I was married to--my heart goes out to you. Happy Birthday!!
2006-09-05 19:06:47 · answer #6 · answered by Elizabeth S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put a birthday card on the side to you from him, sign it yourself...he will be sure to see it, realise and then he will feel so guilty that you'l have diamonds and dinner before the night is out!
2006-09-05 19:06:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Circle it big on the calendar, have a friend call, and let him answer, have them say well I just called to wish her a happy birthday.some men are really not good about remembering things like these as woman, so we have to give them some subtle hints.
2006-09-05 19:08:49 · answer #8 · answered by koni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would change all the combinations to locks, and passwords to my birthday. When he asks what is the password, just say, "Its my birth date, you tell me"
Or go tell him Happy Birthday, when he says "its not my birthday" say "I know. It's mine" Then go buy yourself something from Tiffanys and thank him for it.
Don't get mad though, don't yell at him. Choose your battles.
2006-09-05 19:07:04 · answer #9 · answered by Honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well let me start off by saying HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!! I would not do anything, he will remember in then he will feel very bad. He will make it up to you.Sorry wishing you the best.
2006-09-05 19:06:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya yell hubby
2006-09-05 19:06:42 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋