ive just found out that my boyfriend of 6 months has been looking at loads of porn sites. i came across it by accident and im kinda worried. im very insecure about my looks and im scared that he does this cos he doesnt find me attractive anymore. should i feel threatened or shouldnt i worry? i could really do with advice about this cos its doing my head in.
2006-09-05 11:50:41 · 6 answers · asked by Gemba 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's entertainment like watching TV or something , your over thinking the situation too much . He's just killing some time and nothing more . You need not feel threatened or worried I'm quite sure if you've been together 6 months he cares about you and a few pictures are definitely not competition for you that's for sure believe me.
2006-09-05 12:00:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should not worry. Nearly ever guy does this. It's normal. He is not comparing you to them, it's pure fantasy. If he wanted to be with them, he would and he would dump you already. The fact that he is with you says something.
It's the same way women like romance stuff. Are you cheating on him very time you watch a chick flick or read one of those steamy books? Same thing....
2006-09-05 11:58:26 · answer #2 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can install a porn filter software like NetDog on the computer,that help you to block all porn sites quitely in the background when he's surfing on the internet. http://www.netdogsoft.com
2006-09-05 15:08:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't worry about it. Porn is just a fantasy. Now if he starts requesting certain positions then be concerned.
2006-09-05 11:54:45 · answer #4 · answered by bernie2u4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my bf does the same thing im proud u asked that i feeel the same way
2006-09-05 11:54:19 · answer #5 · answered by Mizz,Thang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look at it with him... get involoved....
2006-09-05 11:56:34 · answer #6 · answered by keep your head up 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋