I have been with my boyfriend for 5 months now. Things were good at first but then I started to get to know the real him. He likes to smoke, do sneaky things, and says he loves me but I realized he keeps me blocked on AIM. I never did anything to him, and he's straight to my face but then does annoying stuff like this behind my back. I am so fed up with him and his lies and sneaky ways. The reason I am not sure if I should dump him is because he says he loves me and I hear from other people around the school that he likes me A LOT. I am not so sure anymore, because he and I talk everyday at school, but then he goes and blocks me for no reason. He also doesn't want me to talk to this guy in his grade who bullies him. My boyfriend is really confusing me, and I am so sick of it. I bet tomorrow he's going to act like everything is okay in the morning, because he thinks I don't know about this. I am not so sure if I should confront him. I am so nervous and confused and need some help.
2006-09-05 11:48:20 · 10 answers · asked by +♪♫ rip my jeans.not my ♥ ♫♪+ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First, dont play little kid games with him. You have practically answered your own question. You are too good to be with a guy like him and certainly dont need him. You can easily do better and its time to do so. This guys words are cheap and his actions speak far louder than his words. There is no need to confront him as he will surely tell you more lies just to hold you. This is not the same as love and is a whole lot worse. Just tell him yore tired of his childish ways and arent going to take the abuse anymore and to grow up and learn how to handle a woman like she should be. And leave it at that. Good luck
2006-09-05 11:56:30 · answer #1 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this boy is still a little childish and if he blocks you for no reason then he must got something to hide. ump him and do better besides how you know if he s telling the truth if he lies so much and then he got a bully at school oh yeah he's LAME let him go
2006-09-05 11:54:49 · answer #2 · answered by cupcake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok do the math. If he lies to you...well helloooooooooooo.
The 'I love you' is a lie too.
Better yet, focus on school until you are old enough and mature enough to have a real boyfriend.
2006-09-05 12:01:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stay with him if you like having a boyfriend who blatantly lies to your face...So what he tells you he loves you. If he is going to lie to you, then the love isn't worth it.
2006-09-05 11:50:46 · answer #4 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should confront him with these problems, and you shouldn't stay with him just because you think he loves you you have to love him too. If it was me I'd break up with him.
2006-09-05 11:59:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
CONFRONT HIM!!!!!
And if he really does love you he'll change... and if he doesnt move on to a guy that doesnt treat you like that!
2006-09-05 11:52:18 · answer #6 · answered by keep your head up 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate the guy and i don't even know him. Girlfriend i know you can do better than that. open your eyes and see him for the lying, cheating scum he is.
2006-09-05 11:58:01 · answer #7 · answered by Babyphat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no person or relationship is perfect, I think your reasons are kinda petty.
2006-09-05 11:51:22 · answer #8 · answered by Tim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anyways tell your family. or teacher
2006-09-05 11:53:16 · answer #9 · answered by Galo A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN!!!!!
2006-09-05 11:52:13 · answer #10 · answered by chaoswantsangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋