i fell in love with this girl the day i stared into her eyes shes my first love,i fell deeply in love,im just 14 but i can tell you,ive been in love with her for two years about to be 3 years, i know in my heart and in my gut that im mr.right for her,even though me and her dont know eachother that well,i just know she the girl im gonna end up marrying,and the mother of my kids,its an instinct,most grown ups on yahoo answers say i dont know what im talking about but i do ill die for her ,fight for her ,i would love her no differntly if she had aids or anything i love her theres just something in her eyes,i know why i love her,bacuase shes smart sophisticated,buetiful,and just seem like shes full of life,and not so flirty with more.basically i wanna just say this type of love is rare and i know what guys more concentrated on other things in life.and i feel is true,shes the most buetiful women in the world to me,no matter what you say,i know ill love her forever no matter if were together
2006-09-05 11:42:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
or not in the future shell always be in my heart.even though i know fate will bring us togther
2006-09-05 11:43:56 · update #1
I think you have a crush. Send flowers. Can't hurt. But before you talk to her, organize your thoughts. If your speech is anything like your writing, forget about it.
Good luck.
2006-09-05 11:44:55 · answer #1 · answered by inpoetry1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met the man I am now married to at the age of 14. He was 18, and he knew that I was "jailbait". He never tried anything, and we didn't stay together very long. But the person who introduced us always said that we were perfect for each other. The years passed, and we both married other people (he was married twice before me). 21 Years later, we were both single, and hooked up again. That was the best thing that could've happened. He is so good to me. I told him that I'd been told way back when I was 14 that he was suppose to be the one for me. It was true, but we had to go through alot of bad stuff in our lives to appreciate it when we finally did get back together. We've been married 13 years now. So, yes, I believe in love at first sight.
2006-09-05 18:47:46 · answer #2 · answered by IthinkFramptonisstillahottie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Young love. Man, you have it bad. You call it love but an older person would call it a crush or an infatuation. Semantics aside, your hormones are raging and you think it is love. So why do you care what we think?
How are you going to know the mother of your kids better? What do you have in common? Don't play the fool, but Women like to laugh. Make her laugh. Be polite. Dress well. Clean your shoes. Trust me, women notice shoes. Women love compliments. Practice good oral hygiene. You never know when you might get to have that first kiss! Don't say stupid, macho things when she is around. She has to trust you so don't lie to her. Don't pretend; be yourself. If she doesn't like you for who you are then save yourself the time and heartache because it won't work out.
Good luck!
2006-09-05 18:59:10 · answer #3 · answered by ssbn598 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa, big fella!
And pay attention, ladies!
At 14, us guys really feel this. I remember!
Now listen, Romeo* you need to talk to her about this, but it needs to be MELLOW. Don't go into the whole "you are my density" bit just yet... Save it for a moonlit night when you're beneath her balcony.
First you have to spend some time with her and let her know that you have "Feelings" for her. Try not to scare the crap out of her.
It's been 3 years, and as you said "we don't know each other well.." well, partner you better get a move on! Congress doesn't take this long to say something!
Now if something god awful happens and bursts your dreams, you're going to be really sad, but don't let it bother you for too long. Sometimes things aren't as bad as they seem. Just get right back out there and get in the game.
* - it is a widely held belief that Romeo and Juliet as depicted by Shakespeare were young teens, between 13-16 years of age.
2006-09-05 18:53:22 · answer #4 · answered by Jerry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met my husband on May 14th 2006, if that is not an EXTREMELY crazy example of true love I dont know what could be... I just want to let you know that EVERYONE in both of our families were completely against us getting married but that is one of the MAIN things that showed us that we are supposed to be together... and if you love her it honostly only matters how you two feel... I know it is hard but that is what love is about and if yall are ready to endure all together I believe that it is love and I say go for it while you can b/c even if it isnt true you will both learn sooo much from the experience..., God bless and yall are in my prayers:)
2006-09-05 18:50:30 · answer #5 · answered by WeiNKauF 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happened to friends of mine in grammer school. After graduation, they got married; he finished Medical School and is a fine Dermatologist. They have five children and get along beautifully. Happy to say, they have been married a very long time and are extremely happy. So, this can happen but it has to be love for both of you. Give it time to flourish and mature.
2006-09-05 18:46:41 · answer #6 · answered by skyeblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are still young and there is still time for love. No one can tell if it is love or infatuation. That is actually something you will determine later on when you find love with someone else.
2006-09-05 18:45:29 · answer #7 · answered by erotic_songbird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem like a nice honest boy but right now i'd say infatuation. You've gotta get to know her!
2006-09-05 18:46:12 · answer #8 · answered by Dex's Gal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you could be feeling could be infatuation and it could be love if you feell in your heart that the two of you will be together then I hope that you are right and you get to live the life you have planned in your heart
2006-09-05 18:57:48 · answer #9 · answered by melthule 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont mean to sound rude.........
Your 14. This is your first love, there will be more for you and her. If it was meant to be? then it will be. But brace yourself. Sometimes bad things happin to good people.
2006-09-05 18:46:30 · answer #10 · answered by Jack 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋