he has cheated on her had a baby by somone else since they have been together and he even had a fling with thier babysitter and she still stay how can i help her
2006-09-05 11:37:57 · 15 answers · asked by monica h 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she has a baby by him and four other children besides the one she has with him is she staying because she think she can't do any better because she has 5 children
2006-09-05 11:57:02 · update #1
Mind your own business. I am sure you have tried before to get her to see is he no good, but you can't make her see what she doesn't want to see. If you know all of this information about him, them I am sure she knows it too. She is choosing to ignore it. You now have to accept the fact that your friend is just choosing to be extremely stupid for this guy and you have to make the decision of either staying there and being there for her or walking away from her.
2006-09-05 11:40:26 · answer #1 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not any real point to your question is there. She picked a loser and no matter what she holds to it. In life sometimes people do get what they need and deserve. She either has to get some self esteem and get moving or she can wallow where she is. When it comes to women and men the odd guy out is just that OUT. You can stop harping or move yourself to the curb.
2006-09-05 18:44:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this but there is nothing you can say or do that will change her mind. She will have to find out the hard way. I know you are concerned about her and I do understand but the more you pressure her about him the more she will stay with him.
2006-09-05 18:40:53 · answer #3 · answered by shirley e 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to tell you but this she has to do on her own. The more you insult the man she "loves" the more it will drive a wedge in your friendship.The only thing you can do is bite your tongue let her learn and move on at her own pace and be there for her when she cries.
2006-09-05 18:42:37 · answer #4 · answered by sheose711 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really can't do anything although you would love to help her. But, she's got her mind made up. No matter what you do, she's not going to change. You might even damage your relationship with her. Just be there to pick her up, and dust her off after she falls.
2006-09-05 18:41:32 · answer #5 · answered by rb_cubed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunaltey there is nothing you can do to make her leave this loser. if she cant see what hes doing to her then she has some serious issues....like no self confidence. sad but true how some females let this happen to them and still allow it. hopefully one day she will wake up and smarten up before shes the next one pregnant.
2006-09-05 18:41:43 · answer #6 · answered by michelle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people have to learn the hard way.
I would leave her alone. I know you care about her because she is your friend. But you are not responsible for her. She needs to make her own mistakes.
2006-09-05 18:41:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get it all on tape and show her. Or take pictures. But make sure you don't get caught or else you'll be in big poopoo. Tell the guy to tell the truth to her.
2006-09-05 18:55:46 · answer #8 · answered by Vanessa<3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could try telling her that the guy is not good for her but she may not listen so then she has to realize this herself i had this happen to one of my friends and she did finally realize on her own that the guy was no good so maybe you should let her find out for herself
2006-09-05 18:56:00 · answer #9 · answered by watermelonwine_2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sleep with or make out with your best friend's boyfriend. Or make something up, like he tried to hit on you. That should break them up. Good luck.
2006-09-05 18:43:08 · answer #10 · answered by NïghtStalkër_666 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋