Theres this guy that i REALLY like .. we hung out a few times, and barley talk on the phone.. I thought and he thought he liked me .. i have a huge crush on him, and i want him to like me, i catch him lookin at me at lunch and stuff still, but he ignores my calls.. but he told one of his friends that he doesnt like me, but just friday night he told me he did like me... how or is there a way i can make him like me?
and today while on the phone with one of his friends they asked him y he was ignoring me and he said he just doesnt like me like in that KINDA way.. but as friends.. but i want more.. anyway?
2006-09-05 11:32:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Unfortunately, there is no guarantee in love that the person you love will love you back. Worst yet there is no magic pill or potion or saying that will make him like you. But the picture isnt all that bad. If hes willing to be friends thats good. You have to be friends first before you can be anything else so go ahead and be friends,dont rush anything , be patient and see what happens. If it is meant to be then it will happen,maybe not right away but someday. Good luck
2006-09-05 11:39:43 · answer #1 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make him like you. But it sounds like he's either confused or doesn't want his friends to know that he likes you 'cause is sounds all sappy. I think he likes you though. Guys usually don't tell other guys they like a girl unless they're "in love" with her. I've learned this from my twin brother and older brother. They're both the hotties every girl wants, but they do what i told you (for what guys do). Trust me!
2006-09-05 18:38:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry. you can't make someone like you. You can't. They like you, or they don't. Someday it might change, but for now, the only thing you can do is wait.
From what you said, it sounds like he knows you like him, but ,make sure he does. He may just be unsure about how you feel.
And you can still be friends with him. If he's fun enough for you to like him, he's probably a pretty cool friend.
2006-09-05 18:37:27 · answer #3 · answered by millancad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant MAKE him like you but you can kinda be real around him but not ALL serious and stuff look "cute" but act like you like him kinda (dont give it away) and be like all calm and stuff when your hanging out with him. DO NOT. I REPEAT DO NOT throw yourself at him or even act like all screamy and like aww!! thats sooo cute!!! and fake and all that. TRUST me this kid i went on vaca with (me and his sis are like best best best friends) he was older and he liked me and would follow me and everything and it was soo annoying and so i did that and he totally backed off. so i wouldnt do that around him.
2006-09-05 18:39:10 · answer #4 · answered by Jenna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two letters will answer this question. Very simple answer too.
Have you guessed yet, what are those 2 letters?
Thats RIGHT
The answer is BJ
2006-09-05 18:36:05 · answer #5 · answered by littletimmyjohnson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So he tells EVERYONE except you that he doesn't like you. I would count that as a major clue.
He is apparently too nice to say it to you.
2006-09-05 18:41:37 · answer #6 · answered by patweb01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't make a guy like you he has to like you on his own if you come at him too strong he might think you are too aggressive for him and shine you off!!
2006-09-05 18:35:14 · answer #7 · answered by ~Ms Eli~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing u can do to make him like you, his mind is already made-up. find something else, i know you're pretty, don't establish such hobbit.
2006-09-05 18:40:51 · answer #8 · answered by splendid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask what he likes about girls and make urself into that... dont change completely but kind of make urself to his dream girl if u really like him!
2006-09-05 18:35:25 · answer #9 · answered by boicarazi12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
silly rabbit, tricks are for kids, hey wait you must be a kid because you can't make someone like you
2006-09-05 18:36:01 · answer #10 · answered by free2chat_tou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋