she has glasses she is not popular she need a makeover she wears her hair in the same hair style which is she has ponytail everyone make front of hair because she has the biggest glasses ever in the whole school she eats lunch by herself why i am at the popular table
2006-09-05 11:14:25 · 12 answers · asked by Kara L 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Be nice to your geek friend. Some day she may be your boss.'
2006-09-05 11:20:22 · answer #1 · answered by Bluealt 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You do not need to worry about what anybody else thinks about it. Who cares, how she wears her hair, how she dresses, etc. She is a person too who either doesn't know how to be cool or just doesn't feel comfortable. You should be the role model and sit with her. Don't let her sit alone because your other "popular" freinds are snobs. Be the good freind and person. As far as the needed makeover goes, invite her over one day and give her one. Show her how to dress right and fit in as far as fashion sense goes. You know it's the right thing to sit by her, and if your freinds have a problem with you hanging out with her, they shouldn't even be considered your freinds. But if you are worried about the whole geek thing, give her lots of tips and i'm sure she would really love your help with that.
You never really know how she really feels around others though, so just try to make her feel comfortable. Maybe the other people would see that kindness and really like you for it.
Good luck girl!
2006-09-05 11:44:13 · answer #2 · answered by Hey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well..if she is your friend, then you should help her out!
Invite her to dinner one day, and do her hair. Also show her how to do her own hair in a lot of different, cool styles.
Give her a makeover! If you have extra makeup give her some..or you can buy her some as a present. Show her how to put it on. Then ask her like: Do you have contacts? and tell her about contacts if she doesn't know about them..persuade her to get them!
Do all of this slowly, leaving the glasses last. You don't want to ooffend her or anything..Also, invite her to your table at lunch a few times! Maybe the cool peeps will like her..y'never know!
I feel bad for her..g'luck
Oh yeah: Geeks are always the people you end up working for..its true ;)
2006-09-05 11:22:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have pretty much this same problem I would suggest letting here sit at your lunch table, it shouldn't decrease your popularity level at all. Maybe find some friends for her like maybe the other not so popular people in your grade. The other thing you need to look at is that if you hang around or just talk to that geeky girl, and your friends ditch you, were they your true friends, i mean come on, they ditched you cuz you were hanging out with her more. I thought people are friends with people because they like who they are not who they hang out with. Also, tell your other(the popular ones) friends shes not bad just cause she wears big glasses doesn't mean that shes not nice, or funny or caring (w.e it may be). Maybe suggest to the "geeky" girl to get nicer glasses, maybe show her a new hairstyle that you think is cute. Heck, for her birthday buy her a cute outfit with some jewerly to match. Well all i'm saying is include her, improve her image, and stick up for her. Trust me ALL of this has worked for me.
~BYE FOR NOW~
P.S.- I'm not saying to give up your friends just so ya know (i did all this, and the "geeky" girl is friends with all my friends) I gave her some of my clothes told people she wasn't so bad and to give her a chance, it worked for me it should work for you, give it a shot!
2006-09-05 12:34:51 · answer #4 · answered by Jamie P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend needs help and doesn't realize it. She in denial that she's her own person and doesn't need anyone to tell her she's a special person. She may even feel that if she gets a make over, she's somehow selling out.
One day, she'll wonder why she can't get a date or have only 2 friends counting her cat.
Just keep offering her help with a make over. One day, she may come around and take you up on that offer. Until then, she'll have to get used to sitting alone.
2006-09-05 11:26:29 · answer #5 · answered by Mack L 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should invite her to sit at your table. If she is really your friend, her looks shouldn't matter. You could offer to teach her some hair and makeup tricks too. I agree with what Bubblpinc said.
2006-09-05 12:28:13 · answer #6 · answered by starry n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
offering her to sit with you will not decrease your popularity. on the contrary it might even grow.
Maybe she doesn't really care about how she looks right now becuase she is so upset and sad about being lonely and having no friends.
2006-09-05 11:16:22 · answer #7 · answered by The Amazing Humdinger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bring her to your table and make things right, or go sit with her if she is really a friend
2006-09-05 11:20:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is your friend, you accept her as she is, and you make it a point to include her, and let them see what it is about this girl that makes her your friend.
2006-09-05 11:16:42 · answer #9 · answered by Jamie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm ask her if u can give her a makeover!
2006-09-05 11:56:55 · answer #10 · answered by W8 4 the guy who.... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋