2006-09-05 11:10:07 · 6 answers · asked by monica h 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i have told him that i would like to get married but he always find some reason why it is not a good time
2006-09-05 11:23:32 · update #1
Where you made the mistake is having a family without being married. Now days that's the way we live. I feel like he's comfortable in the living situation. A man knows in 6 to 8 months whether there going to marry there spouse or not.Marriage is so Honory in God's eyes. You may love him but do he love you enough to marry you, if so he would have been pop-ed the question and you guys would be married.
2006-09-05 11:17:23 · answer #1 · answered by foxy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you live together and have children to him is like you are married.
Men think differently then women do. We want them to pop the question no matter what, right?
Have you talked about it with him, if not he might think that you are o.k with the situation you are in now, so tell him how you feel and let him now you are happy as is but that getting married will make you feel more complete.
good luck.
2006-09-05 18:18:54 · answer #2 · answered by latina lover 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on you and what you want. My girlfriend was with her baby's father for five (5) years and he kept saying he was going to marry her, he just left her for another woman.
On the other hand I know of another couple that was living together for 10 years and just got married last year. I guess it all depends on what you want, how much you can take and how long you are willing to wait.
2006-09-05 18:18:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no one can really answer that question for you. What I can say is that you have to decide whats important to you. Think things through clearly and come to a desicion on your own. I assume you know this man very well so ask yourself (and be really honest!) is he the comitment type? Does he love me? But most importantly DO YOU LOVE HIM??? If you do love him and you think he loves you too then you should be able to talk to him about why he hasn't asked you...maybe he's scared...maybe he's insecure...maybe he just doesn't want to commit. It's better to ask then always wonder. good luck.
2006-09-05 18:15:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you want to be married and see what happens.
2006-09-05 18:12:47 · answer #5 · answered by mightymight 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well let me put it like this why buy the car when you can rint it
2006-09-05 18:17:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋