My boyfriend just left me last night and I don't know what to do I'm very heartbroken but there is another side to this story.... I dont know really how to say this so Im going to type as it comes. My boyfriend and I have been arguing lately which is unlike us because we never fight, I'm 22 hes 25, he told me that he was ready to start a family and get married. Well Im about a month pregnant and he has now left me I dont know what to do I love him with all my heart and am not ready to let go, yes for myself and also the baby. I cant even go to my mom cause he talks to her everyday and she sides with him on everything so Ive come to all of you for help what do I do let him have his space and maybe he'll come back and maybe he wont or give him a couple of days and try to talk to him again. All I know is that I cant lose him he really is my everything. Please give me some advise I'm very lost and confussed. My email is southernsweetie525@yahoo.com
2006-09-05 11:02:33 · 4 answers · asked by southernsweetie525 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Since he is still talking to your Mom (have you told her your pregnant), he is still looking to keep in contact with you. Did you tell your bf that your pregnant. Since he wants to start a family, he may be really happy and be supportive. I would call him and let him know about the baby and then decide what to do from there.
2006-09-05 11:09:05 · answer #1 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry boo this happened well im pregnant to (8months). dont put alot of stress on yourself you could miscarry. Try calling and talking. Im sure he will be back sooner than you think just give him a few days to his self. Yo got to come down and letting go is not an option here. You love this man dont give up you keep trying. Thers nothing wrong with expressing your love for him to him. Save your relationship despite of what anyone syas. think of the baby. you should have to raise it alone. Email me we can talk more each day i have time and i want to be here for you so you will be okay.
2006-09-05 11:10:01 · answer #2 · answered by cupcake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try talking to him. I know alot of things are said that you don't really mean when you're mad. It's been a day so maybe he just needed to cool off. Try to work things out before you tell him about the baby or does he know and that's what this whole argument was about?
2006-09-05 11:11:52 · answer #3 · answered by behavin26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm really sorry to hear that, hopefully after he thinks things through on his own for a day or two, he'll realize he's making a huge mistake. If he loves you, he'll be back asking you to forgive him.
2006-09-05 11:06:36 · answer #4 · answered by Melisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋