Well to start with i have a BF of 1 year now. And there has been a few problems with my older daughters in their relationships with their BFS. My BF trys to act like their father and it gets us in many arguements. Do you feel he should interfer or not? There has been many other problems with my daughters in the past and we have tired to help them but this time it has gone to far and i dont know where to go from here.Or how should i handle this all cause it has got me a very nervous person anymore?
2006-09-05 10:47:40 · 5 answers · asked by joy s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It sounds like he is trying to help, There are always two sides to everything, I just have to say that you should listen to him first. He is male and they know what younger males like to do. Also I have found many men are like their fathers, at least a little bit.
Your daughters will have to learn on their own for the most part, I know that from my own experience.
Just remember they have a mind of their own and all you can do is be an example and give them guidance when they need it.
2006-09-05 11:01:55 · answer #1 · answered by casper_cat76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your bf to step back and you should handle situations, it sounds like you may be pushing your children away from you in letting him interfere and he is not her father so he should be there for you but stay out of the serious problems.
2006-09-05 17:53:26 · answer #2 · answered by ~Ronyea Q♪ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should feel irresponsible for letting a non-committed man come into your home with your children. You should also feel like a cop-out for not asking the right question.
2006-09-05 17:50:37 · answer #3 · answered by georgia b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a elder your bf has to just told them what is wright and what is wrong then you have to live the matter up to them
2006-09-05 18:14:05 · answer #4 · answered by pcbrd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not their father. He's not even their stepfather. He should not interfere.
2006-09-05 17:49:53 · answer #5 · answered by WendyD1999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋