Do you think you would let them do your taxes?
Would you play volley ball with them every Tuesday nite?
Would you go to their house for a pool party and hang out all afternoon?
Would you spend extra time with them without the kids?
Would you let them view your medical records while your lying in the hospital unconscious as they pretend to be your current spouse?
Could you please tell me what you think of the above?
2006-09-05 10:34:06 · 18 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He says he is being nice for the kids.
2006-09-05 10:40:09 · update #1
It is sickening if you are the new girlfriend. I have 2 kids who are nearly the same age and I do not feel the need to look at my ex husbands medical records. not even when he was in the same hospital I work in. He also does not get into my financial business and I am in love with someone who I prefer to spend time with....and it is not my ex husband and never will be.
2006-09-05 10:52:27 · update #2
He and I have been together for 5 years. I was not introduced to his ex wife for over a year and when he introduced us, she turned her back to me and stomped off like a brat. She didnt say hi or even aknowledge me. She is re married too. She complained to him later on about me. She thinks I am a "whore". I am a professional RN career woman and have raised 2 kids alone with no child support and make more money than he does.
2006-09-05 13:12:40 · update #3
We went on vacation about 3 years ago and arrived home late in the evening. The next AM before we were out of bed his ex called to find out how the trip went. She doesnt get it is none of her businessl I found out later on its where he took her after they got married.
2006-09-05 13:18:03 · update #4
I would rather watch my ex be slowly ground into burger, while alive, preferably with dull grinder blades.
2006-09-05 11:19:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he is an accountant and he has to sign the tax paperwork saying it is correct and complete..
No, don't enjoy volleyball..
Yes, if invited to do so..
Yes, there are times when parents need to talk about issues with the kids when the kids are not there..
No, I have a current spouse and he would be the one at the hospital with me.. Besides without a medical power of attorney not even your current spouse is allowed to look over your medical records...
Ex-spouses with children need to try thier best to get along and do whats best for the children without stepping over the line..
2006-09-05 17:49:17 · answer #2 · answered by Diane (PFLAG) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
huh, well im as friendly as i need to be for the sake of my child..would i let him do my taxes, no...not unless that is what he does for a living..tuesday night games..no, but hanging out once in a while wouldn't kill me..by no means should this be done on a regular basis..unless of course your still really good friends...i've spent time with my ex husband without my kids..after all we were married for 6 years. let them veiw medical records, only if i was trying to get info from them...it's normal for people to be close to there ex, sometimes closer after a divorce...but if your in a relationship with someone else, then that time should definatly be limited...unless of course this is all done because of deep felt feelings that maybe just aren't being admitted.
2006-09-05 17:39:41 · answer #3 · answered by MyDreams2Be 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, you are in a very jelous rage. I think you need to calm down before he dumps you off at the next curb. Truly, alienating him from his kids and his kids' mother will only alienate yourself from him. How long have you been with this man? Do you think it is right for you to dictate how he treats the woman that is the MOTHER of his legacy? Perhaps your just jelous because your ex doesn't care a rat's @$$ about you...but maybe by the way you talk is an indicator why you were treated so. Grow up.
2006-09-05 18:03:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no, yes, no, no, yes and no, I think your spouse is somewhat involved with his ex, but that is very natural. Remeber, the EX is an EX for a reason. I don't think I would waste time worrying about something you could not stop IF it were to happen. But I doubt that anything is happening. Good luck
2006-09-05 17:49:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with you people?! You obviously cared enough at one point to create a child together and now you "struggle" to be nice just for the kids sake. You people disgust me and should be ashamed of yourselves! I'm still very close with my ex it just was not meant to be. What is the point in hating each other? Not very productive is it?!
2006-09-05 17:46:13 · answer #6 · answered by Paul L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ex spouse and myself are very civil for our child HE ISNT MY FRIEND.
nope
no volleyball
no pool parties
nope never spend time with him w/without our child
my medical rec.are off LIMITS to EX.
this is going way to far your ex is your ex for a reason and you should leave it like that if all of this is going on you might as well be in a relationship still.
2006-09-05 17:43:09 · answer #7 · answered by CaliMa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No to all! They are your ex for a reason. It's good to be friendly for the sake of kids, but you also don't want to confuse kids by spending too much time together.
2006-09-05 17:41:21 · answer #8 · answered by max76 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex asked me to do his taxes. I said no. No volleyball.No poolparties. no time with or without the kids.Definately no on the medical records. I talk to my ex as much as I have to only about our kids.There is nothing else I feel we have to talk about. The wellbeing of our kids is all.
2006-09-05 19:11:15 · answer #9 · answered by froggie47469 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No to all the questions. I don't even care for my ex. I'm just cordial to him for the kids sake. When he divorced me that was the end of anything personal.
2006-09-05 18:03:18 · answer #10 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋