2006-09-05 10:33:56 · 31 answers · asked by some one you don't know 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
No, you should not abort your babies. The circumstances of your life are not the babies' fault, and they do not deserve to die. They are depending on you, their mommy, for love and protection. Please make sure you have all the facts:
Photos of Abortions, Including 1st Trimester Abortions:
http://www.cbrinfo.org/Resources/pictures.html
A Four-Minute, Must-See Video on Abortion:
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-4-video.html
Information on All Aspects of Abortion:
http://Abort73.com
Photos and Facts About Prenatal Development:
http://www.justthefacts.org/clar.asp
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-2-prenatal.html
http://www.studentsforlife.uct.ac.za/foetal%20dev%20photos.html
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/in_pictures/3847319.stm
http://www.lifeissues.org/ultrasound/11weeks.htm
Pain Perception in the Unborn:
http://www.advocatesfortheinnocent.com/fetalpain.html
Abortion Stories:
http://abortiontv.com/Words/truestoriesfrom-mothers.htm
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-G-2-testimony.html
Abortion Risks:
http://afterabortion.info/complic.html
http://www.abortionfacts.com/reardon/effect_of_abortion.asp
http://www.standupgirl.com/site/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=218&Itemid=40
Abortion Deaths:
http://www.lifedynamics.com/Pro-life_Group/Pro-choice_Women
http://www.afterabortion.info/news/abortiondeaths.html
http://www.lifeissues.org/ru486/deaths.htm
Free, Confidential Pregnancy Help (including referrals for financial, medical, legal, and housing assistance; free pregnancy tests and ultrasounds; free maternity and baby supplies; pregnancy, parenting, and adoption information; counseling and emotional support):
http://www.optionline.org/advantage.asp
Support for Pregnant Teens:
http://standupgirl.com/site/index.php
Support for Pregnant College and Career Women:
http://www.nurturingnetwork.org
2006-09-07 12:20:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No dont have an abortion!! There are a lot of couples out there who would LOVE to adopt twins...Plenty of parents are out there looking for someone just like you. I here that even in some adoption cases the adoptive parents will pay for you're health care, clothes and some of the things you may need. I did a google search on adoptions and found a lot of info. I will give you the link to a site that may help. If not just do a google search. 19 is young to have twins and if you think that you cant handle 2 babies and college at the same time adoption is the next best choice. ( Im 19 and i know that you are in a tough situation so i hope all goes well for you)
2006-09-05 17:56:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to go to college? You are a bad speller. And you weren't smart enough to use protection, so you wouldn't get pregnant, Also, first you say you will have your babies, then you ask if you should have an abortion. You just answered your own question, by saying you will have your babies. No! do not get an abortion! there are so many couples out there that can't have children, who would love to adopt your twins. Are you single? That makes a difference! What does the Father of the twins think, you know he has a say in this situation too!
2006-09-05 17:45:23 · answer #3 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First off how far along are you? Obviously you're far enough to know that your'e having twins.Abortions are tricky the further along you get.They get more expensive and more complicated and dangerous for you.You need to do what is best for you.If you have help and the people around you are willing to help or you feel that you can handle this on your own,which some women ,can then dont have the abortion.But no matter what do what is best for you.This is your life.You have to live with it.I've had an abortion and i was younger than you when I had one.It is a difficult descision either way you are the one that has to deal with the aftermath.You are being given a violent shove into adulthood,but you will be alright.
2006-09-05 18:29:43 · answer #4 · answered by kandicottondarling 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. A baby has a heartbeat 18-21 days after conception. If anything give them up for adoption, so many couples out there can't have children and you can have an open adoption and choose the parents. Do you have family members willing to help raise them? is the father involved? My friend had an abortion at a young age and now she is struggling to get pregnant. Talk to a family member or a counselor.
2006-09-05 17:46:47 · answer #5 · answered by GIngin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell Naw I Will Beat Yo Azz
And If The Daddy A Punk Azz Ni66a
To Not Stick Around For His Own Kids
Den He A *****
You Should Have Those Babies
It's Gonna Be Hard But Keep Yo
Head Up And Pray And Everythang Goin Be Okay
The Daddy Should Stick Around
I Kno I Would
2006-09-05 22:42:20 · answer #6 · answered by JJ Lee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please consider doing research on abortion before you decide. There are many women who go to college and have families. You may have to wait a while, but that's life. Even if you can't go right away, doesn't mean you can't go eventually. My sister was in a similar situation, and I used to tell her, "when she got pregnant, it no longer became about her, rather, what was best for her children." You can still do both, I would even suggest getting a job at a day care center so that your babies can come with you, or even doing online college courses, I did many and there actually a little easier.
2006-09-05 17:45:55 · answer #7 · answered by mrspfunk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly honey, i do believe that for the good of your life, yes, get the abortion. As young as you are you'd be making your life a lot more difficult in many ways.. Starting a college career is demanding enough without the demands of 2 babies.
Speaking from experience on the abortion thing, you have to be mentally ready for it, yes physically its quite uncomfortable, pay the extra money for the 'twilight' this is an IV they put in ur arm to make u drowsy.
The worst part is the guilt you may feel afterward, remember this; you've done whats best for you right now and that is what matters. do not torture yourself mentally for what 'might have been' and how old they would be by now.
2006-09-05 17:46:29 · answer #8 · answered by koleebear 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Kill not one but 2 innocent babies to get your education sooner than later, absolutely not!! I have 3 children who are now 6, 4, and 3. My two youngest are 12 months apart and I have been going to college full time for 3 years now. It is hard, but possible. Millions of women do it every year. Step up and be a woman. Be a mother who loves her children. I would give up everything for my children. My education, money, cars, houses, and even my life, but certaintly not the other way around!
2006-09-05 17:37:44 · answer #9 · answered by #3ontheway! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but don't believe in abortion you have the babys and put up for adoption if you don't want them there are alot of people out there in the world who want children and can not have. It is not right to even think of taking a life of a children expecially an unborn child. Give them a chance of life I myself would say abortion is murder only because they are alive inside of you
2006-09-05 20:38:58 · answer #10 · answered by bert_ind20042000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋