I have asked him about her and told him if she's just a friend that there's no reason to hide the fact that he talks to her. He waits till I'm at work or gone, to call her on numerous occasions. We just moved in a month ago and he made these calls from the old house they lived in. I don't know if he's cheating on me or lying about our relationship, or theirs. Please help! He'll be home soon and I don't want to go crazy with accusations when he walks in!
2006-09-05 10:26:01 · 9 answers · asked by Linz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need to sit down and have a conversation with him about this. Tell him you don't feel comfortable with him talking to his ex-girlfriend when you are not around. Ask him to tell you how he feels about your relationship and about how he feels about their relationship. Good Luck!
2006-09-05 10:30:36 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well let me tell you that ex's can't really be friends. I broke up with my ex and when I was seeing this other guy we were actually engaged, well my ex and I started talking again. And let me tell you I was happy to talk to him and I know he liked talking to me. I told my fiance at the time that I was talking to him, and that he was just my friend. However, we didn't always just talk as friends. I think you need to tell him to end it with her, or with you. If he's not cheating already, he will. Just think about it if it continues. And if he doesn't have a problem giving her up, then he's good for you. If he puts up a fight, then there's more to it then you know. Good luck.
2006-09-05 17:37:42 · answer #2 · answered by Susa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhhhhhh... again this is a question that should NOT take a rocket scientist to answer.
If he is hiding it there is a reason. Scr*w sitting down and talking about it, and all that other fluffy cr*p. He is either cheating in the person or in the emotion. Take your choice and end it.
2006-09-05 17:33:19 · answer #3 · answered by BadAdvice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You make a good point--if she is just a friend, there's no reason to hide it. But it sounds like he's probably cheating on you, or will soon.
2006-09-05 17:28:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your boyfriend dosen't feel comfortable talking on the phone with his ex, while your in the presence.....but then again what is he hiding???? If she's just a friend?? I think you need to confront her and him, and if he says their just friends find out the truth, and if it's something more serious, then you gonna have to move on and leave his sorry BUTT!
2006-09-05 17:37:06 · answer #5 · answered by meja01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually when someone tries to hide something it means they don't want you to know about it.
2006-09-05 17:34:02 · answer #6 · answered by max76 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have told him this bothers you and he goes and does it behind your back I would confront him one more time and then make up your mind if you really want to be with him.
2006-09-05 17:30:22 · answer #7 · answered by wldctpete 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like my problem but im 32 yrs old and im mature to know that i keep my exes as friends and she doesnt understand that theory and for once i didnt keep it from her...so he has to be honest and you have to be mature enough to either let it be or bring it up and let him know how you feel ...either way you have to let him know you now....
2006-09-05 17:34:50 · answer #8 · answered by chris b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u have any doubts at all....its never a good thing
2006-09-05 17:32:55 · answer #9 · answered by jaxxie1982 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋