2006-09-05 10:25:15 · 32 answers · asked by peonies76 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The only advice I can give is just live your life on a day to day basis. Trust me when I say it is NOT by any means an easy thing to do...getting over someone is one of the hardest things you can go through...because it's not like when a person dies (not to compare) ....when a person dies you know you can no longer be with that person physically, but when a person leaves you or you break up you know that you COULD (if given the chance) be with that person, but they will not be willing to be with you. ( I hope that makes sense)
The best advice comes from a Killers song:
"Time heals hearts"...and time is the only thing that will help...
just live your life, try to have fun and remember it is okay to miss that person (you are human after all)
2006-09-05 10:37:50 · answer #1 · answered by vdubbchick 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi. I am certain you never do. I am 60 yrs old lately and you know what? I still have many dreams about my first girlfriend way back when I was 15. What happens I feel is you learn to accept, forgiving and deal with it. You never forget though...thank heavens. Oh, by the way, I have been married three times and the most wonderful thing is; after time, it is human nature to forget the "bad" things and just have those fond memories. So I beg of you, remember that person fondly, yes cry when it happens, swear when it is needed, put a little more "oil in your
feathers" so you will be able to shuck it back and wait for those good memories to make you smile. Good fortunes and happy trails.
2006-09-05 10:43:49 · answer #2 · answered by gordjca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grieve, cry, get sad, then mad, then to the point where you are over them, and show that when they are around. Surround your self with love ones whom you admire most, And last but not least, don't look back. If you truly love someone set them free........sometimes you get the boomerang reaction. They may come back. But by that time you will have moved on, or maybe not. I was 8 months preg when the love of MY life told me that he was not in love with me, never was, and that there wasn't anything i could do or say to change his mind. I didn't try to change his mind, I simply moved home, pushed him out of my life, and the next thing you know he was on my door step like some little dumped off dog!!!
2006-09-05 10:32:18 · answer #3 · answered by zeena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u really don't, you learn to move on but you have to be completely ready. I broke up with my first love almost 10yrs ago, it was rocky for a time, we remained friends and there are some old feelings that are still there and probably always will but now I am with a really great guy I have been with for over a year, we are talking kids now and I have learned to love him in a different way. But you will always hold on to that love but learn to move on. It hurts like anything for a while but then turns to caring and if you two are really meant to be together you will but don't hold on to the past i did for so long and hurt a lot of good people and stay strong
2006-09-05 10:30:50 · answer #4 · answered by dmwilson91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My this is a hard question becuase i thought if you truly loved someone you dont give up or let them go you hold on to them. The only way i would let go and give up is if the person has died. Even then you dont stop loving them you hold on to memory. You dont get over them you have to get them back if you truly think its love go for it.
2006-09-05 10:28:44 · answer #5 · answered by cupcake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By knowing if you truly love them you will let go. It is hard,painful and you may carry a tiny torch the rest of your life. You must let them free. To hang on will turn on you. You will learn in time that you can move on but the heart is never overfilled with love for others
2006-09-05 10:30:30 · answer #6 · answered by mary texas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure anybody knows that but you. You should truly love yourself and determine how much that person truly loves themselves and you. If they don't love themselves they probably aren't ready for a relationship.
2006-09-05 10:28:38 · answer #7 · answered by Linz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never really do. Although, if you're of age, a good bottle of wine and a comedy go a LONG way. Time DOES heal, believe it or not. It takes a long time for some, and others less time. It took me 2 years to get over mine... and i really loved her, but she loved herself more.
2006-09-05 10:28:18 · answer #8 · answered by punkdrunkard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't see yourself and the person as "us";
you dont' try to erase it from your memory because it won't work;
you dont' try to find someone as good now because you are unlikely to get that lucky;
you lelt go of your anger or pain and panic, because this is what will be eating you up;
you say to yourself that you have done nothing wrong, and you did your best;
you believe that one day something wonderful will happen to you, adn you will be ready to take it.
2006-09-05 11:05:51 · answer #9 · answered by shortnotsilly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg, girl, iknow what u mean, but answer this question? did he love u, one sided love never works and what happened in ur relationship that broke u apart? think about all the bad stuff, it is too easy too remember the good stuff, just take my word u will feel better in a couple of months, just make sure u start dating and hanging around other guys. i promise u will feel better
2006-09-05 10:28:07 · answer #10 · answered by vernoica 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋