How can I ask my friend if I can come over to her house this weekend? I dont like to invite myself to people's houses though. That's the problem and also I just met this friend not too long ago. Well we went to school together and then she went to another school and now we met up again so i'm still kinda shy and etc...So, again...How can I ask my friend if I can come over to her house this weekend?
2006-09-05 10:20:09 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
my one friend that lives next to my friends house i want to go to said that she wouldnt care if i jsut showed up but like i said i havent even talked to her before on the phone.
2006-09-05 10:28:31 · update #1
I agree that you should act cool about it, but tell her you would like to see her if she has any time to spare...
Make it sound casual, and make use of any opportunity she gives you to tell her you'll "Come visit her".
Another idea might be to tell her that you'll "just happen" to be in her area on the weekend, does she want to get together while you're in the neighbourhood???
One thing I will advise, is that you should NEVER just drop in on someone. Especially when you're just new to a friendship. This would be highly inappropriate and even look freaky, and in my opinion, it's not even OK when you've been friends for ages. That's what mobile phones are for...
Also I'm not sure how old you are, and I'm in my 30's, so you might think I'm old and know nothing, but you should take something with you if you go to her house. (Especially if she lives with her parents).
I don't mean flowers or anything, maybe just a CD that you could lend her if you know what she likes. Junk food if you're watching a DVD. You should never go to someones house empty-handed. Ever.
Good Luck, you sound like a lovely person, and I bet she'll be hoping to hear from you!
2006-09-05 10:47:05 · answer #1 · answered by SierraSydney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all about acting like it's no big deal. If you want to go, just say, "What are you doing this weekend? If you want to kick it, give me a call." And then give her your number. It's always inappropriate to invite yourself over to someones house. But you can give them the room to offer. Good luck.
2006-09-05 17:24:02 · answer #2 · answered by punkdrunkard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say in the nicest way you can "hey i would really like to come over to your house would that be okay with you" you will be surprised that being direct most of the time will get u want you want there is not need in being shy we are all just ppl
2006-09-05 17:27:03 · answer #3 · answered by Jessika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk straight. Tell her that you want to go to her house. Or else just surprise her by reaching her house without any prior information.
2006-09-05 17:24:22 · answer #4 · answered by Pramod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her up and be like hey lets hang out this weekend...after she says yeah lets hang out and you are talking about what you can do, be like well we cant hang out at my house...could we hang out at yours?
2006-09-05 17:22:58 · answer #5 · answered by reena_ree86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her what she is doing this weekend... see where the convo goes from there.
2006-09-05 17:21:58 · answer #6 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't go.
2006-09-05 17:21:41 · answer #7 · answered by Kevin H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋