my girlfriend stoped loving me like before she is acting very cold, i talked with her and asked her about the reasons she keeps saying i dont know why i'm like that.
what should i do ?! :(
ps sorry for my english :)
2006-09-05 10:16:07 · 25 answers · asked by ramroom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I can honestly tell you "been there, done that".. I was w/ my bf for 2+ yrs. I feel like I fell out of love or was about to fall out of love was cause I didn't feel the same from him as I did before. It could be that your girlfriend is confused about what's going on, what she wants in life (espectially if she's young) it could be that you dont treat her the same, or that you guys argue to much and/or just dont understand eachother. You can do two things at this point.. If you really love her and how been w/ her for a long time then you should know that she loves you too if she has been w/ you this whole time.. What you guys might need is some ALONE TIME.. Just you and her, show her a good time, show her that you are the man she fell in love w/ and that still loves. Remind her that you are you and that you love you that much... Go away for a few days, no phones, no friends, no fights just you to and have some fun.. remind her of the good times.. Two: If you guys haven't been together that long then maybe she doesn't know you to well, maybe she's still trying to figure that "love"thing out cause its a big meaningful word.. You guys can always try taking sometime. You know they say "if you love something let it go, if it comes back to you then it's meant to be".. Maybe thats what needs to be done for you and your girlfriend to know if you guys really want to be together.. Remember you dont want her to be w/ you for any other reason then that fact that she loves you..I from personal experience tell you that much.. LIfe is hard and there is alot going on, maybe you and your gf are caught up in work, family, everyday life that you guys forget whats more important.. I dont want to think that she found someone to remind her of all those things.. So do that..at least try
2006-09-05 10:31:45 · answer #1 · answered by SharaG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might just be trying to get rid of you in a nice way. Some people do fall out of love. You need to respect her decision and sorry to say this but get over it and move on. Everything happens for a reason.
2006-09-05 17:20:54 · answer #2 · answered by Amber W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing that is important she hasnt stop loving you, maybe she never did you will never no. Maybe she is seeing someone else. She could be having problems in here life that is making her react this way. Another reson she is probly acting like this is because she might what more attention from you.
2006-09-05 17:23:36 · answer #3 · answered by De 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear this i hope you are okay and are feeling okay. Love hurts and when you truly love someone and they act different its mainly because they arent interested or they are already invovled with someone. Just pray and do what you need to do so when its really time for you and her to break. You will know you were not at fault.
2006-09-05 17:20:32 · answer #4 · answered by cupcake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something is wrong...it might not be you though. Just tell her that you love her and if there is anything you can do to help her you are there. Chances are, she won't open up. And the only thing you can do is stand by and let her be or leave her be and walk away.
2006-09-05 17:19:45 · answer #5 · answered by Erica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boy she playing u she with some one else no what? find another girl dont tell them about youre girl now when u get her if that cold girl said no say by then but say u dont live with her or this advice is nothing
2006-09-05 17:23:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about her and move on! You can't just stop loving someone if you love them you love them regardless, u can fall out of love but that's a different story! Move on find somebody that can appreciate you.
2006-09-05 17:21:41 · answer #7 · answered by Ash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by stopped loving you? did you try to outrage her modesty knowingly or even unknowingly? Explore this point. May be you will get the answer.
2006-09-05 17:21:00 · answer #8 · answered by Pramod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your girlfriend is dipressed. try to take her to a nice place, somewhere where the two of you can relax and talk one on one. it will help, and if shes is giving you a ccold sholder, then you may have done something wrong.
2006-09-05 17:21:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to talk things out with her. If things don't improve then I think it would be better if you just move on. Good Luck!
2006-09-05 17:33:00 · answer #10 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋