Im a very nice guy. Very smart and a swimmer who holds varsity records in my school. Im pretty shy though. What i dont get is why are girls into the hunks like the football players. The girls always complain how their boyfriends are all depressed when they lose a football game and take it out on them. Yet they still are more attracted to them. Also, where I work (the waterpark) the girls are into these two dumbass obnoxious stupid guys. I just dont get it. One of the obnoxious guys got a hold of this one girl yesterday and was holding her down on the ground. It was obvious that she was getting hurt, but he kept laughing. Then today she had marks on her arms but she was still talking to him. I just dont get it. Im nice, smart, and very sincere. Why are girls not into me?
2006-09-05 09:55:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
when u're in high school, u like guys for different reasons than u do once u've matured - in high school, u wanna be popular and well liked, so u go for the guys that u can receive the most attention from being with.... when u get older, u'll realize that things will change - when girls start to mature, they start to look for the guy that's right for them, not who's the most popular - just be yourself & hang in there
2006-09-05 10:03:37 · answer #1 · answered by JeenaBlahBlahBlah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls are attracted to the alpha male... like it is with all other animals. (Not that humans are animals, some are, though). Animals always choose the strongest male to mate with. And most girls look for a guy who can "protect" them when needed. ANdy they always say how they want a nice guy, but they end up dating jerks anyway. It was the same case with me. It was like I loved being treated like ****. They automacially think that huge muscles and whatnot means that he'll protect you when needed. But once they realize that they have little in common, that he's more interested in toning his abs then listening to how her day was or carrying a solid conversation, they realize that hunks or whatever, good looks are just good looks. Doesn't mean that he'll treat you like the Queen you are or that you even share the same interests. And THAT"S when they settle for the sweet, intelligent male.
2006-09-05 17:02:10 · answer #2 · answered by Sanne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're really shy they might not notice you as much. Get up the courage to talk to some of them and I'm sure everything will work out for you. Some girls just like jerks and don't realize what they're missing from nice boys like you.
2006-09-05 16:58:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is that you are in grade school and girls there are generally shallow and stupid (though there are exceptions). I'm sure someone likes you and are just afraid to say it. Don't worry about the girls who like the hunks, they aren't always worth it in the long run away. You'll find someone or they will find you.
2006-09-05 17:27:44 · answer #4 · answered by 4eyed zombie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's got to do with hormones. Sexy guys are always a turn on for chicks, but in the long run, the sexy guys get old, too, just like everybody else. That's when chicks decide to look for something else in a guy besides looks. The chicks don't stay hot forever, either. Remember that.
2006-09-05 16:58:41 · answer #5 · answered by IthinkFramptonisstillahottie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its been my experience my whole life, get used to it. When women get to be 50 or so, they have more sense. The liking muscles comes from when muscles would mean providing food and protection. Guns changed it. People evolve slowly though. Also, women choose men who have the worst qualities of their fathers in order to try to resolve the unresolved issues from childhood. Also, they just choose violent stupid loosers who lie to them and all that. Not sure why either. I've asked similar questions here myself. It makes no sense, why would a woman WANT to be mistreated instead of treated well? I don't get it either.
2006-09-05 17:01:57 · answer #6 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The kind of girls you should want to be with will be into you, you just need to find one and many girls dont realize how much they'd like a nice guy until they've been abused.
2006-09-05 16:58:52 · answer #7 · answered by Kaysee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell me one thing .. what kind of girls are you talking about. the very active, good looking, sexy, extrovert kinds or the ones who are shy and modest looking and always look very innocent ? if you do not look for shy girls why would you expect a girl to look for a shy guy like you?
Girls are into these hunks coz they are confident and that is one trait that girsl like. Hope it helps you.
2006-09-05 17:00:23 · answer #8 · answered by GoodGuy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, just wait. Either that or ask in the singles and dating area: how many girls want a shy nice guy over a popular jerk? Just try it and see what they really want.
2006-09-05 16:59:40 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
young girls are attracted to bad boys. After they have been mistreated and abused for several years they finally come to their senses and date a nice guy. You just have to wait.
Consider the reverse. Are you overlooking some nice girls?
2006-09-05 16:57:30 · answer #10 · answered by Plasmapuppy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋