Ok. So I have been a straight female all my life. I've always been a smidge curious about what it'd be like to be with a woman. Recently I have begun chatting with a younger woman (she's 23)online who is gay. She thinks I am bisexual. I just don't know. I'm confused. I find myself thinking about her on a daily basis, wondering what would happen if I explored something I've never explored before. Help........please.
2006-09-05 09:53:24 · 16 answers · asked by confuzzled25f 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Edit....I've told her I'm straight, but from our conversations, she has formed her own opinion that I'm bisexual.
2006-09-05 09:54:09 · update #1
I'm single. I also have a five-yr-old daughter. Trying something different scares me to death when it comes to her!
2006-09-05 10:14:02 · update #2
look you don't need to worry about she think all that matters is how you feel!!!!! I think you need to do what feels right to you and if that means explore another woman then go for it but if it dose not feel right to you then don't... You need to go with what feels right to you!!!!!
Good Luck
2006-09-05 10:04:41 · answer #1 · answered by sxypiggy2000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think a lot of people have bi tendencies. More would explore them if not for some really uptight religious upbringing and society issues. Let yourself explore. Even if it turns out you are straight as an arrow, you want to find that out also. You don't want to ask yourself in 20 years, "what if I had checked it out in 2006?". May you find love, however, with whomever is just right for you.
2006-09-05 10:23:11 · answer #2 · answered by Jack P 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you single? If so, so what! Life is full of surprises and experiences. Leave no stone unturned, for I, for one, do not want to lie on my death bed and say, "I wish I had...."
But be prepared that fantasy can be infinitely better than reality. You won't know unless you try it out.
IF you are married, I suggest you have a heart to heart with husband...If you cannot share your deepest with him, you need to learn how to. Perhaps he could give guidance that would be useful...and if a typical straight man who isn't a religious nut, he may say....goooooooo for it, can I watch?
Good luck and love in life.
2006-09-05 10:12:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I noticed that no body cared to answer you, so I said I will try to give it my best, perhaps my best is not enough. I cannot understand it at all; why would a beautiful woman that men would go crazy for just the look at her, refuse men and go for a another lady like her. Tell me if you really care what do you feel more sensuous than sleeping with a man if you love him. Is it really better to be with a woman like you, or are you ashamed to be with man? What is it that is different than a normal sexual relationship. What is it that you would do that makes you more enjoyable than if you were with a man. I wouldn't dare talk like that if you were two homosexual men in love with each other, but to a woman, I can talk with her freely because from my view I understand the things that she has that turns me on. But for a man, I think it is more than disgusting it is worse than any thing a man can do. That is how I feel about it. A man who goes for his kind is better dead than going after his lust for another man. A woman that searches another woman, turns me curious because you are giving your self to some one I accept my self to love, to have or take for my joy that you could offer to woman. I wish I could say more than what I had, but woman and another woman together is really a waste of love for man like me.
2006-09-05 10:18:30 · answer #4 · answered by lonelyspirit 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart and insticts. If you think about her as much as you say, then you have some feelings for her that are honest feelings. If you want to meet her, tell her so. however, let her know you need to set the pace. Don't be afraid of saying no, but also don't be afraid of saying yes. You never know what you may learn about yourself or find along the way. Good luck
2006-09-05 10:00:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be your self, if you feel like exploring I would because we all should live the way we want to live .
:)
2006-09-05 10:12:19 · answer #6 · answered by Super 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are not married or involved and neither is she then I would explore your thoughts as long as you are comfortable. IF either of you are involved I would suggest you tell your mate first.
2006-09-05 09:56:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you have been up front with her and she still thinks how she does, so if you were to get together just take it slow and see what happens and how you feel when you are actually face to face.
2006-09-05 09:56:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It couldn't hurt to keep talking to her. If you decide later on that you want toexperiment, then at least you can try it with someone you already know.
2006-09-05 10:02:03 · answer #9 · answered by big_dog832001 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah, try it....make sure the girl online really isn't some crazy psyoman or something like that
2006-09-05 13:14:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋